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I wonder if anybody here knows of a person who has been cheating online and then they have recovered from it?
Also does anybody think a dishonest person can become truly honest?
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"It is not the critic who counts; not the man who points out how the strong man stumbles, or where the doer of deeds could have done them better. The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena.." Theodore Roosevelt Exposure 101
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thanks MelodyLane, could u share ur experience with me?
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It is taking a huge effort by my FWH (and me) but we are progressing with both. I'll be excited when I can answer like Mel.....but that could be awhile.
My strange story (attached to my sig line) shows our progress.
Ace
FWH/BW (me)57+ M:36+ yr.
4 D-Days: Jun-Nov 06 E/PA~OW#2 (OW#1 2000)
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Yes and yes for me.....
Im a WS, and Ive done both. My wife left me and I relaized what is really important. Ive gotten into church and have turned my life around, I now have no need or desire to cheat or speak to any women like before.
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thanks Zach, do u mind me asking WHY did u do it?, was it only because ur wife wasnt fulfilling for emotional needs or because u were not happy with other things also...?
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Well I think my W wasnt meeting a lot of my EN, and I got to comfortable and everything seemed to be a routine, and I went out and got caught up with another Woman.
I ended it within a week and ran back to my wife and she took Seperation papers out on me on the 5th and shes still unsure about us. But during that period of time we've been apart ive turned my life around. People can change trust me when I say that. Sometimes it takes something very tramatic like what ive been through to do it but it is possible. Ive been a serial cheater and ive even told myself I dont think i can change, but when I lost the most important thing in my life it turned me around completely.
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thanks Zach, i see u are really young, have a long way to go, make it a good one, we women value radical honesty A LOT,Good luck
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Yes very young, and im trying my best to work on myself and hopefully god will bring my wife back into my life someday. Thanks for the support.
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