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Her WH is threatening to force her to change the locks when he brings kids home today. Says he will call a locksmith himself.

MEDC, she could use your expertise in law enforcement knowledge.

WS will be coming today to pick up kids for the day, and will return them later today.


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I am so glad I introduced you to phoenix (or referred her directly to you); you seem like the perfect person to help and guide her.

I just wish you could help one more person (Sinkingin).

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BA...***edit*** SMB has asked you to not post to her...stop ****edit********

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BA****edit*****. SMB has asked you to not post to her...stop *****edit*******

MEDC, your comment has been noted, but I will not react to it. I do hope you'll use more appropriate and well-mannered words here in the future.

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BA why are you so desperate to share your terrible, uninformed advice with hurting people ?

Do you not care that your desperate need to be heard may destroy hurting people's chances of recovery ?


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I am so glad I introduced you to phoenix (or referred her directly to you); you seem like the perfect person to help and guide her.

I just wish you could help one more person (Sinkingin).

Give me a freakin' break, BA. You did NOT guide me to Phoenix. I "found" her all by myself.


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MaggieMaster posted this info on another thread. Thought you all here might find it interesting to say the least.



Googling bestadvisor brought up that it's a HE, and he likes to troll at loveshack:

http://www.loveshack.org/forums/search.php?searchid=2789527

And also as bestadvisor1:

http://www.loveshack.org/forums/search.php?searchid=2789691

He follows the same trajectory there, asks pointed questions, gives terrible advice, and dogs certain threads relentlessly. Wants answers but won't give any.

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BA****edit*****. SMB has asked you to not post to her...stop *****edit*******

MEDC, your comment has been noted, but I will not react to it. I do hope you'll use more appropriate and well-mannered words here in the future.

MEDC,

I do appreciate your direct approach, even if others here don't. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/cool.gif" alt="" />


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Sexymamabear, my mistake. I didn't refer you to her, but I did guide her to you.

SMB and tst, I thought about starting a whole new post, but I really don't want to get any more attention. I would like to apologize for targetting tst. I guess I directed my anger or uneasiness toward him due to the injustice that he has created. I'm sorry I singled you out, tst. I was not "hating" on you, but merely on the acts you have done, if that makes sense.

SMB, I also want to be clear that I'm not apologizing for refering phoenix to you nor am I apologizing trying to request you to help and advise sinkingin, because I truly believe you can help her better than most. In addition, I will also not be apologizing for defending you by arguing the differences between your affair and tst's affair, even though I was slammed for doing that.

Once again, my intentions are good. tst, I was mad at the injustice that was caused by the "old" you to SMB and your children. I now see that it was inappropriate and wrong since you're no longer the old you anymore. I hope you can accept my apology.

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How about you being honest here BA...Let people here in on why you are HERE...Maybe when you do that your apology would seem sincere to SMB/TST...Right now I doubt very much that it will...JMHO...

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BestAngel,

whoever or whatever you are, postings from you are unhelpful at the least. Why are you trying to force contact with people who tell you to back off? The "explanations" and "apologies" and "corrections" are continued intrusions.

You say you are well meaning. Well meaning people can do great harm if their advice is bad. I might mean well when I walk into an emergency room and put on a surgeons gown. But unless I've got an M.D. after my name my actions will sooner rather than later hurt someone.

At least in a hospital, there is a way to remove an unqualified "helper."

Go away, please.

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I was not "hating" on you, but merely on the acts you have done, if that makes sense.

BA-- how old ARE you? I've heard you're a guy. You either make an awful lot of assumptions about SMB and TST or you know them personally IRL. I have my suspicions and the more you write, the more they are confirmed.

Since you refuse to tell anyone about yourself, you're fair game for our own assumptions. As it stands now, you're a fraud (impersonating SchoolBus), you're sneaky (changing your screen name multiple times), and you're uninformed about MB (giving bad advice)... and that's just for starters.

I will join others and continue to WARN people about you. Fess up or go away.


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“In a sense now, I am homeless. For the home, the place of refuge, solitude, love-where my husband lived-no longer exists.” Joyce Carolyn Oates, A Widow's Story

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