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Do you ever want to strangle the WS.....
#1994384 12/18/07 09:41 AM
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and their fog babble....

The things that come out of their mouths are really amazing to me. Thought my His moving back to the house for 'financial reasons' I am getting ready to throw in the towel. I know that I have done alot of things wrong but lsiteneing to this stuff is amazing.

The latest statement is...
"No I havent' decided if I want to be married to you, but I know it will never work out."

Then in the same breathe he calls me Imzadi - http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Imzadi

I'm beginning to lose my hair over this. I thought I was crazy before but now....

Anyway, just thought I'd share.

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Re: Do you ever want to strangle the WS.....
zoraziyal #1994385 12/18/07 10:51 AM
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zora,

Actually, my dreams of his demise were much slower and more painful than strangulation. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/wink.gif" alt="" /> Get Orchid's "reverse fogbabble" thing going....it really helps.

fog babble: "No I havent' decided if I want to be married to you, but I know it will never work out."

reverse: Yeah, I know you have trouble deciding what you want and how to work things out.
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zoraziyal #1994386 12/18/07 10:53 AM
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Do you ever want to strangle the WS.....

Yes. If you do, wear gloves. And have an alabi...

My wife got pregnant by the OM during Plan B. One of the classics out of her was:

"It's YOUR fault that I'm pregnant..."

By then, I was used to all sorts of fog-babble and found it pretty amusing. I did say that biology wasn't perhaps my strongest subject, but she really need to explain how I got her pregnant...

Enjoy it while it lasts! If it gets to be too much---you're probably heading for Plan B...
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Alot of my stbxw's plan was to get me to act violently toward her.

I never gave in, no matter how cruel or violent she was toward me.

However the OM, that's another story.

I watch, and am as a sparrow alone upon the house top.
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yes, unfortunately.

Sometimes anger rears its ugly head and I try my best to realize that I am angry with the SITUATION more than I am with WW. My sitch may be different since my WW is an internet addict as well but I look at it as she is not quite right and it would be wrong to be angry with someone who has a mental disorder (whether it's true or not it helps a bit!)

-JC

BS - 41 (me)
WW - 32
Married 9/4/99
DD4
D-Day - 10/7/07 (EA)
Status - Piling stones in Plan A
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