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I’m going to parties, New Years Eve and New Year. I’m thinking of one liner to relate rapidly what I’m going thru.

For example “My wife is having an affaire, has left me for OM, had a house built with him, is living with him, is now pregnant with him, is seeking to divorce me and after 28 months of her affaire, with the advice of marriage counsellors, after having done everything reasonable, I’m thru with her and I’m seeking to divorce her for outright infidelity myself.”

How does that sound to you peaple on a Marriage Builders forum?


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How about "I'm getting a divorce."..... and leaving it at that...


Me BS - 44
FWW- 42
EA for 4 years with fellow employee
became PA in Jan 04 - I knew of this one.
Seperated/ Divorced July 03
2 sons 14 & 12
D Day -6/26/04- PA in 1998 for about 1 year- I had NO idea.
recovery and reconciliation began 6/27/04

Remarried 2/18/06

My story?? Click below.

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Yes, that is straight and I imagine that my attitude conveys most of the message. If someone really wants to know, I can give details. But doesn’t that give the impression that I’m just getting a divorce and that there isn’t a good reason for it.

How about “I’m divorcing my wife.” Is that disrespectful of my WW?


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If you want to keep it light (because it's a party) how about "I'm divorcing my wife because I don't like sharing her with her boyfriend." Then, if they want to go into it and you TRUST them, you can.


Widowed 11/10/12 after 35 years of marriage
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In a sense now, I am homeless. For the home, the place of refuge, solitude, love-where my husband lived-no longer exists. Joyce Carolyn Oates, A Widow's Story

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