okay so my husband and I have been married for about 13 months now, we have always been fighting, mostly me and him, well both of our faults. This last fight was out of control and he changed the locks and I am with my parents now. its been 3 weeks and still no communication. I dont know what to do. I have seen a counselor and I am so strong at times but then like today i called him and he sends me to voice mail and I fear he is already planning to find someone else. I know he loves me but I fear that it went too far and his very mad and hurt. and I don't believe in divorce, but i feel if i dont let go i am going to dirve myself crazy. I just want him back so we can work out stuff, but he doesn't see mto want to do that?