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It will be WONDERFUL for others to help Serenity.
However, your advice to her is incorrect.
Her WH is a TYPICAL cake-eater.
My FWH followed his exact same script.
She should definitely continue with PLAN A.
I made it happen..a joyful life..filled with peace, contentment, happiness and fabulocity.
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Mimi, I didn't give her advice. I just stated my reaction (not to be confused with advice) and requested and hoping that more Vets would give some more inputs.
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I am NOT a vet, SS. It baffles me that you keep asking me to post to people. I have been here barely over 9 months. Yes, I have learned a lot; but there are many much more experienced and knowledge people here. I am happing to post when I feel I have something to add or contribute. But please do not refer to me as a vet.
You are kindof like an OW or OM who just refuses to go NC. You find ways to post to me like this message title. I have asked you to not post to me. Yet you continue this type of indirect posting.
Just asking people to take a look at her post is sufficient.
Now, if you respect me as much as you have said, please respect my request that you do not post to me...in any way, shape or form.
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SMB, if you don't feel like posting to her, that's fine, maybe Orchid or someone else will. Take it easy. By the way, Happy New Year to you, tst, and the kids. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/wink.gif" alt="" /> Orchid, I hope you will help SereitySoon. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/frown.gif" alt="" />
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Believer, Mimi, and Skinsgal have been on her posts. She is in good hands.
When I have time, I will read. But I probably can't help more than Believer and Mimi already are. They have much more experience than I do.
As I mentioned before, you refuse to respect my request that you do not post to me. Please stop.
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what i don't understand is I get edited yesterday by Oasys (and rightfully so) and yet, this poster (BA and NUMEROUS other monikers, now Stillsame) has been permitted to harass SMB and TST for months.
SMB...please...each time this freak changes his name, just add it to your ignore list.
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No, I do NOT! Once again, your stupid guess/assumption is wrong. Schoolbus, stop posting to my post.
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Mama Bear - I know someone else suggested this once, and I just need to bring it up again - is there ANY chance that you are being stalked by the OW in your sitch??
It is just so creepy the way you have been singled out. I have never seen anything like it on here before.
You have been very firm in requesting that this person not post to you ,and yet it still keeps happening.
and then this line:
"Take it easy. By the way, Happy New Year to you, tst, and the kids. "
that is just creepy. You have just told this person to leave you alone, and yet they wish happy new year to you, H and kids??? I'm sorry - but that is clearly stalking behavior.
This sicko did not bother to wish Mimi a happy new year....or MEDC. why have you been singled out?
I have worried all along that the OW is somehow involved here, and my radar is still up.
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I think this is SMB's other man perhaps.
What I don't get is why he gets away with staying here after all the transgressions.
On the other website, he has changed names three times. Here, at least five, now six.
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Schoolbus, stop posting to my post. Schoolbus, didn't you hear the request? Stop posting to SS's posts! Of course, that would be same way SS has stopped posting to SMB's posts, you understand... <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/rolleyes.gif" alt="" /> Payback has puppies, doesn't it? <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/pfft.gif" alt="" /> t&l
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No, I do NOT! Once again, your stupid guess/assumption is wrong. Schoolbus, stop posting to my post. This coming from someone who changes screen names almost weekly, continues to stalk SMB and TST (AND THEIR KIDS), attempts to impersonate SB (who makes a living with the written language AND who happens to REALLY be intelligent!), pretends to KNOW or CARE something about MB, is nothing more than a voyeur (IMHO) and who gets their kicks off of others pain and misfortune.
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Schoolbus, didn't you hear the request? Stop posting to SS's posts! Of course, that would be same way SS has stopped posting to SMB's posts, you understand...
Payback has puppies, doesn't it?
t&l Correction: My mother was a bold woman.
A smooth sea never made a skilled mariner.
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And SB, ignore this person. They do not respect you, or have your best interests at heart. Nor do I believe he/she/it/they are benign.
A smooth sea never made a skilled mariner.
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Gee,am I bothering you, StillSame?
Why don't you put me on "Ignore"????
RIGHT AFTER YOU APOLOGIZE TO ME FOR TRYING TO STEAL MY USERNAME AND IMPERSONATE ME.
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Mama Bear - I know someone else suggested this once, and I just need to bring it up again - is there ANY chance that you are being stalked by the OW in your sitch??
It is just so creepy the way you have been singled out. I have never seen anything like it on here before.
You have been very firm in requesting that this person not post to you ,and yet it still keeps happening.
and then this line:
"Take it easy. By the way, Happy New Year to you, tst, and the kids. "
that is just creepy. You have just told this person to leave you alone, and yet they wish happy new year to you, H and kids??? I'm sorry - but that is clearly stalking behavior.
This sicko did not bother to wish Mimi a happy new year....or MEDC. why have you been singled out?
I have worried all along that the OW is somehow involved here, and my radar is still up. tst and I already considered this and checked with Justuss. This person does not live in our state. It's just the ridiculous online hassle. I sure am glad I wasn't dumb enough to give this person my email when he asked for (because that was the only way he would share his story with me). <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/rolleyes.gif" alt="" />
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SMB,
I've not had time to follow every bit of what is going on with you and your H, but I wonder if you have flat out asked your H if he shared with his OW that you were posting here.
Have you noticed a pattern with this poster who is stalking you? With what little I have read he/she tends to target you whenever you talk about the OW. IMO, is you H's OW likes to read about herself in your posts.
Now I am not a detective and I could be totally wrong about this, just a feeling I had about this craziness going on since he dumped her. Timeline is about right, isn't it?
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Looks like our posts crossed, LC. We all had similar thoughts, but apparently JustUss has looked into it.
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