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Schoolbus, Looks like our posts crossed, LC. We all had similar thoughts, but apparently JustUss has looked into it. I see we did, but this person could be masking their IP address, if that is how it was determined this person isn't posting from their state. I know a few sites to hide your IP were posted on a different thread not all that long ago. Either way it's creepy and my guess is if it isn't the OW in their situation it is an OW in a similar situation. An OW with some really irrational thinking patterns and needs some serious help. LC
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I think either OW or OM, certainly. I just feel badly for SS, because MB people are generally good folks, and forgiving as well.
With an apology, things might happen -might change. We might even be willing to hear the story behind all the different usernames, all the strange posts, and maybe even help this person heal his broken heart.
I doubt an apology is forthcoming, however. I don't see it in his nature. I could be wrong. In this case, wouldn't that be a pleasant surprise?
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SHE just posted this to TST: TST Quote:
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Because I choose to see hope today although I am a completly broken man. I see brokeness everywhere I look now, but I am also filled with the hope of knowing Adonai is greater and will restore all brokeness and fill the emptyness of a soul in His time. . . StillSame's response:
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This surprise me a little. I knew you were broken before and right after your W took you back. Now, you have your family intact and everything is going pretty much as well as it can be. Remorse and regretful...yes. But, why are you still feeling broken and all those emptiness? I'm not even exactly sure of the situation but if TST has a xOW out there somewhere, IMO this is EXACTLY what she'd say in this situation. The implication is his "emptiness and brokeness" is a result of losing her. She's spitefull because he dumped her butt to go back home and now that he's home, any indication of unhappiness is met with contempt and a "I told you so". I suppose if bestadvisor, sunshine1, bestangel, stillsame can get around being banned about 10 times now they can also disguise their IP address. Crafty lil' who[color:"white"][/color]res I guess now that she's home alone with no MM to screw she's got the time to search you out and harass you to ad nauseum. Certainly a demonstration of her desperation and the FACT, TST made a GREAT choice to dump her loser A$$. Mr. Wondering
FBH(me)-51 FWW-49 (MrsWondering)
DD19 DS 22 Dday-2005-Recovered
"agree to disagree" = Used when one wants to reject the objective reality of the situation and hopefully replace it with their own.
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Mr. W.
Justuss has been on this for us previously to verify not OW/OM. and we are secure in the fact they are not.
This is now the 14th name justuss has had to remove. It's just a sick individual attempting to defocus people here at MBers and get attention for themselves. Very sick/very sad.
Who ever this individual is doesn't have a clue what sweetly broken and wholy surrendered means....
There is no longer emptyness in my life....
I have been made new.... He makes all things new!
And this individual has no clue how much I love my W for fighting for my life and our marriage.... I have a hope that surpasses understanding today, a hope in a recovery I never deserved but fully accept.
I am so glad so many watch over us here.
thanks,
Recovery began 10/07;
Meeting my wife's EN's is my "thank you" that refuses to be silenced.
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Wow, tst, a true and hopeful beginning in redemption.
Your marriage does have blessings this New Year.
It is a wonder to me how brokenness can feel so freeing.
Congratulations.
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