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I looked at a SAA website. Are all spouses who have affairs Sex addicts?
I think you have to find out if your H is a true sex addict before using those principles to aid in recovery. I could be wrong.
The affairmonger could easily say, "I was addicted, I could not help myself".
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oops Stella - I thought you (and wonderin) meant "Surviving an affair". It is called SAA on here all the time.
Me: 56 (FBS) Wife: 55 (FWW)
D-Day August 2005
Married 11/1982 3 Sons 27,25,23
Empty Nesters.
Fully Recovered.
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I did mean Surviving An Affair. Stella is blessed...she's never had to go through this, hence the confusion for the abreviation.
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Oh sorry! I am glad I was wrong. It just did not make sense to me! Thanks...
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Me either Stella. Thanks! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" />
Me: 56 (FBS) Wife: 55 (FWW)
D-Day August 2005
Married 11/1982 3 Sons 27,25,23
Empty Nesters.
Fully Recovered.
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Hey Stella, How in the heck can you have 4630 posts on this forum and not know that SAA is Surviving an Affair? <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/eek.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/eek.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/eek.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/rolleyes.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/shocked.gif" alt="" /> Who
I am the BW,
He is the FWH
D-Day: 12/02/03
Recovered
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Hi wonderin, This is SMB's post. This is a list of her and her husband's work with Jennifer Harley Chalmers. The no-contact stuff is always done first---there may be specific change of orders based on what the most immediate need is---but you'll get through all the material eventually.
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I always made the wrong assumption, Sex Aholics! From the beginning. I am really glad there are not that many sex aholics on MB!!!!!!!
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