Hi,

I have been lurking for a while doing a lot of reading. I cannot find the link to the Spying 101 thread, so I decided to post my question here. I suspect that H is cheating again!! All the classic signs, but of course he is denying. I am tired of playing games with him. He refuses to bring his cell phone in the house, and will not answer it when he is with me. He has his own phone plan with Sprint. I am not on the plan, so I cannot call and ask for a duplicate bill. Is there any other way that I can get a copy? I just want to slam it in his face, so that I can be done with him once and for all!! Thanks.

I posted this in "Just found Out", but was told that I would get more responses if I post here. I would link the previous thread, but I do not know how. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/frown.gif" alt="" />

Does he pay online? If so, get a keylogger ($50 or $60) and install it on the pc then after you know he paid his bill go and see what his log in and password is.

ACTUALLY....he refuses to bring his cell in the house?????Why??? Will he not let you go through it, yes classic signs...what more proof do you need if he's done this before. Be strong!!!! You want solid in your face truth because you're hoping that would put you emotionally where you want to be? If you truly feel he is cheating, and u r sure you have the solid classic signs...and u will leave him anyway when u get the proof, be strong and just leave. Cuz its an emotional rollercoaster.

Bill in the mail---just intercept....what's he gonna do, sue u?!

Sprint does online invoicing.

Go to the Sprint website, and it'll have a login section.

Odds are VERY high that he'll use the same login and pw that he uses for his email/etc... Try that first.

If you can get access to his phone for a short time, you can request a PW reminder be sent to the phone from the website...just make sure that you delete that text before you give it back to him.

He has a keypad password on his phone. I know .. .....

Bumped the spying 101 thread for ya!

Keylogger is your best bet.

be fully aware that you are committing a crime by accessing this information if you are not on his account. You could open yourself up to a hefty fine if you decide to make it known to him how you got this info. I would suggest that you do not reveal your source.

Do you have a cell phone on that account too?

I have cingular and was able to set up a log in account for my own phone number on my WH's and my joint account.

When I logged in I found out my WH actually put his OW on our account. Nice huh?

Anyway, I gained access to all the phone calls for every phone number on the account (even the OW's) until my WH found out and put a security passcode on our account.

Even after that, I simply went down to the nearest AT&T/Cingular cell phone store and stated I did not have the passcode to the account and gave them my WH's SS#. They then gave me the passcode.

I think there are currently some attempts to make it illegal for anyone but the primary account holder to get the passcode, but I think if your WH has a passcode on the account you can try it anyway if it has not been enforced yet.

Hope that helps.

If you haven't found the Spying 101 thread, it's shown below in my signature area. Best wishes.

LH