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Prayers with you girl....Keep us posted.

I'm all dressed up in power red, decadent makeup and hair is sharp.

Attitude is ok.....

Tight undies on... and nylons (this is a NEW THING for me), and very nice slacks.

How is everyone else doing?


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Yay!!!

Thanks, believer!!

DIL and I are planning a Goddess Day soon.

That will be fun!!

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And what will the Goddess Day look like?


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Today I am going to get ready & go buy the casting directors book. It lists who casts what tv show etc... And I'm going to get all my CD's and VHS tapes of things I've done together so I can have a reel made. Lots of agents & managers want to see your reel. Right now I don't have one. But I'm going to get mine made up.

Now it's off to the shower to make myself look pretty for the day.


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***Recovering and growing wiser and stronger.***
I was divorced 10/08/2008.

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Free, fingers crossed, prayers said--Go get em, tigress!

Hair done up nice and sharp--the blond is really striking against my face with the dark brown underneath--HOT!

Wearing a lovely embroidered, crisp, 3/4 length, white boat neck blouse, trouser jeans (around the house wear). Makeup is VERY fresh today, light foundation, bronzer and mascara. I feel very bohemian. Where is that incense?--hmmmmmm...

House is as clean and baby proofed as I can get it for my visit with GF and baby in tow.


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Prayers to you Free!!!

Believer, YUP 2 sizes!!!!! I was doing the happy dance. Eating breakfast is making a difference, along with more veggies and very portion controlled protein..mostly poultry but some red meat.

Everyone sounds like they are IN the Goddess groove!


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mvg....

WAY 2 GO....

I have to say these improvements do do alot for the old self-esteem....

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Believer:

Your POUND CAKE recipe was a BIG HIT!!

My H has been giving pieces out, bragging what a GREAT COOK he has for a wife... <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/eek.gif" alt="" />

I'm giving you the CREDIT, Believer...

THANKS!!!!

Living PROVERBS 31...


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Good Evening GODDESSESS...

"GODDESS IN TRAINING" Not2fun is having a most UN-GODDESS like day...my mood has been soured since @ 3pm, and the funk it has created is stinkin....

It probably all can be traced to having got up late and not getting hair and makeup done pretty for work. So maybe lessoned learned is to make sure YOU make the time in the morning to put your best GODDESS foot forward. So since today has been a scratch, I will go to bed early so I can get plenty of GODDESS beauty sleep and try again tomorrow.

not2fun

ps..sorry this is kind of a downer post on such an uplifting thread, but my mind has been flaky lately...probably doesn;t help that I am congested and have had sinus headaches for a few days now....

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EVERYDAY IS A GODDESS DAY in one way or another..even without the extra beautifying...

A GODDESS stops to recognize the BEAUTY in LIFE..

A GODDESS counts her BLESSINGS...be thankful and grateful..for the DAY that GOD has made...

Appreciate just being YOU...there will never be another YOU...


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Glad you liked the pound cake Mimi.

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Believer:

Do you know of any GREAT WW's DESSERT RECIPES?..Like a COOL WHIP PIE or something? I want to make something delicious for MYSELF!

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Oh, I'll have to think...........

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Tomorrow is going to be a hard day to be a Goddess. But I am going to get up, get ready and drive to the Post Office and pick up my certified/restricted delivery package of D papers from WS. I am going to attempt this without having a panic/anxiety attack or crying in public. I will try to see if I can make it home from the PO before I meltdown. I figure I'm still a Goddess is nobody see's me meltdown. That is my goal for tomorrow.


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LA..you should already know the obvious GODDESS EQUIPMENT for yourself..SUNGLASSES, of course...

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EVERYDAY IS A GODDESS DAY in one way or another..even without the extra beautifying...

A GODDESS stops to recognize the BEAUTY in LIFE..

A GODDESS counts her BLESSINGS...be thankful and grateful..for the DAY that GOD has made...

Appreciate just being YOU...there will never be another YOU...

I really am so CLOSE to being a TRUE GODDESS. G-d continues to work his miracles in me and I can so recognize all that is good in my life.

I just have to learn to be ok with saying I am ok. I would imagine that a TRUE GODDESS accepts these truths of beauty about her and is gracious and graceful evermore.

correct?


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Checking in...

Hair.... Needs color, but doing that this weekend. Look sharp though.

Makeup... chic and very appropriate for my outfit.

Outfit.... beautiful green and black skirt outfit, with matching earring and necklace..... Very nice and very flowing..

Attitude... Not bad. I saw a picture of me about 6 years ago and OMG, I can even see how much weight I have lost. I am applauding myself for that.

Mommy work... breakfast made and good time with boys this morning. Am doing my DD a favor today so they are covered.

Domestic... we really need to work on this one. Definetly my weak point. Remember, I am the JAQ.

Need to work for hard focus at work today. Keep me in your thoughts. My boss is frustrated with me, she wants the OLD dedicated, stay later no matter how long gal.

How is everyone else doing.


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LA..you should already know the obvious GODDESS EQUIPMENT for yourself..SUNGLASSES, of course...

<img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/cool.gif" alt="" />


Yes, I wore my sunglasses today. I didn't bother putting on any makeup because I knew I'd cry it all off. I did. I'm just trying to stay strong and keep from going crazy. I took a couple of my anti-anxiety pills and I'm hoping they work soon.


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Hello Sisterhood!!!!
This is my absolute favorite thread!

A great big thanks to each and every one of you for your good vibes and prayers thrown my way.

Was a great day before the judge. He ordered child support be taken directly out of WH's paycheck so I don't have to worry with his sorry-a$$ excuses anymore. He was going to do "chores" around my house to compensate for not giving me the full amount,too. Won't work in Plan B now will it?! Wooohooo!!

LASGirl, oh my heart breaks for your day. Remember with God all things are possible. If that fails, drink wine.
Are you feeling any better? Praying for you.

Believer, or anyone else - I have been looking for a yummy trifle recipe. I've never made one, but my mouth has been watering for some yummy, gooey sweets.

Skinsgal, so nice to hear about your GODDESS in motion activities. You go girl!

Anyone heard from Fireblossom or her thread? She has me so concerned.

Taking the night off from cooking and stuck a frozen pizza in the oven...because I am a GODDESS.


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Anybody out there?

Mimi, MVG, Not2Fun, Skins, Silent L, Char, Resonance, Believer, Tarnsy...hope I didn't forget anyone...if so - sorry.

Talk to me!

Red Baron pizza was yummy...making snickerdoodle cookies now. I am being SO bad.


What'r y'all up to? DS in bed and I'm ready to chit chat.


"Love the life you live, live the life you love." Bob Marley BS(me)37 WH(37) DS1 Dau from prev M 16 Married 4/06 D-day 6/06, again 11/06, again 4/07 Plan A'd all over the place, then Injunction 10/07, WH moved in with OW WH has own place 12/07 1/08 Plan B
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