<BR>Serenity Prayer for MB Posters:<P>God grant me the serenity to accept the spouse I cannot change,<P>The Courage to change the things about me that I can,<P>And the wisdom to know when to move to Plan B,<P>------------------<BR>When you go through deep waters and great trouble, I will be with you. Isaiah 43:2<P>

Good one! But what about staying in plan A if it works for you???? God Bless!<P>------------------<BR>Chick's <BR>Bren<P>You won't see things until your ready to not be blind!<P><BR>

CBren<BR>Of course Plan A is best when it's working! I just included the Plan B line because for some, it is time to move on to another approach. I wouldn't ever give up on the marriage, but some people think more clearly when you hit them with the 2 X 4 of separation.<BR> <BR>For us Plan A is making a great difference in our daily life...and he doesn't even know what it is. I have been using Plan A since before I knew about the affair, when he had told me that he was unhappy and that I deserved a better husband and should divorce him. So, YES it works and YES I recommend it. <P>He is home, the affair is over and we have set a deadline for reevaluating our relationship in the New Year.<P>I don't think you posted to my "He's having lunch with her"...you don't need to post, but it is an uplifting example of how God can take care of us when we don't want to lovebust but have to assert ourselves. <P>I'll post to it again after the lunch takes place.<P>I'm going to pop over and read your profile, Chicks. Have a good day.<P>------------------<BR>When you go through deep waters and great trouble, I will be with you. Isaiah 43:2<P>

Any other writers want to take a crack at maybe "The 23rd Psalm for the Betrayed?"<P>I've got a bit of writer's block, but I'll bet somebody could come up with something uplifting/witty.