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Quick update: Risk factors for infidelity annual paper coming out soon...preview
#2008059 01/11/08 09:24 PM
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Real quick:

Lemonman's infiedlity risk factor annual survey coming out soon. Here is a quick preview....details to follow:

Risk factors for infidelity (p <0.5)

1. Ford truck (F-150 type)- preferabbly owned by WH
2. Smoking- WH
3. Bowling- WH
4. BW- homeschooling - new**
5. Hunting- fishing included
6. Military- WH
7. night shift labor jobs.

Details to follow.

Lemonman, MD
copyright- 2008

Some people just don't get it, they don't get it that they don't get it.

I had the right to remain silent.......but I didn't have the ability.
Re: Quick update: Risk factors for infidelity annual paper coming out soon...preview
lemonman #2008060 01/11/08 09:26 PM
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Lem...good to see you. Nice to see "sanity" pop its head in here on occasion.

I hope you are well.
Re: Quick update: Risk factors for infidelity annual paper coming out soon...preview
medc #2008061 01/11/08 09:38 PM
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Howdy to you to. Happy New Year.

LM, MD

Some people just don't get it, they don't get it that they don't get it.

I had the right to remain silent.......but I didn't have the ability.
Re: Quick update: Risk factors for infidelity annual paper coming out soon...preview
lemonman #2008062 01/11/08 09:45 PM
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Hey there Lem!!! Good to see ya!!! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" />

Mrs. W

FWW ~ 47 ~ Me
FBH ~ 50 ~ MrWondering
DD ~ 17
Dday ~ 2005 ~ Recovered
Re: Quick update: Risk factors for infidelity annual paper coming out soon...preview
MrsWondering #2008063 01/11/08 10:04 PM
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I like them all - you may want to consider just bought the dream home, and baby on the way.
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what about rich/successful and male?

more testosterone
more opportunities to cheat
more women hitting on him
often a feeling of entitlement
often difficult to be married to

3 adult children
Divorced - he was a serial adulterer
Now remarried, thank you MB
(formerly lied_to_again)
Re: Quick update: Risk factors for infidelity annual paper coming out soon...preview
living_well #2008065 01/12/08 04:35 PM
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what about rich/successful and male?

more testosterone
more opportunities to cheat
more women hitting on him
often a feeling of entitlement
often difficult to be married to

Abso-abso-absolutely. *You* are married to him. *He* is not married to you.

When looking for the situations that lead to cheating, try this:

Either

1) Big failure, where the WS tells themselves "my life sucks, so I deserve this happiness and it's not cheating,"

or

2) Big success, where the WS tells themselves "my life is great, so I deserve this happiness and it's not cheating."

My WH fits none of your listed criteria, LM. None.

Glad to have you back, though.
Mulan

Me, BW
WH cheated in corporate workplace for many years. He moved out and filed in summer 2008.
Re: Quick update: Risk factors for infidelity annual paper coming out soon...preview
lemonman #2008066 01/12/08 09:23 PM
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The Great State of Texas!
Hey Lemonman!

Not sure if you remember me or not... I met your first in 2004-2004 when I was deployed the last time...

Hmmm... I fit 4/7 of your list.

1. Ford F-150 Truck
5. Fishing
6. Military (I'm deployed again)
7. Night shift on Idiotville & Acey's 20-90 Something Vacation thread

Anyway, it's good to see you again!!! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/laugh.gif" alt="" />

Semper Fi,

RIF

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