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Last edited by ChaiLover; 01/22/08 07:32 PM.
BS - me 56
XWH - 57
12/25/06 - Dday - WH promised NC. Plan A in effect. Thought we were in recovery.
6-3-07 - Dday#2 Found out NC never took place and A never ended. Found MB NC promised again, but WH would not write NC letter.
9/07 - Dday #3. Still lying and sneaking around. Plan B implemented
WH wants nothing to do with me
Divorced as of 12/09 after 36 years
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I dont think that he killed his wife. He and his wife had an argument and he took the children to a bridge and threw each one of them off. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/frown.gif" alt="" /> They ranged in age from 4 months to 4years. committed Wait...this might not be the one that I read on msn homepage today...oh my goodness.
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that's a different story. These kids were killed at home.
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committed,
The link in this thread is to a different story than the one you referred to.
Both are very sad.
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It is too heinous to even imagine one such occurence...let alone two!!! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/teary.gif" alt="" />
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Yes, this is a different story. The article said he travelled and was home only 1 or two days a month, and the wife indicated marital problems.
Sounds like he killed the wife, then set the house on fire to cover it up.
BS - me 56
XWH - 57
12/25/06 - Dday - WH promised NC. Plan A in effect. Thought we were in recovery.
6-3-07 - Dday#2 Found out NC never took place and A never ended. Found MB NC promised again, but WH would not write NC letter.
9/07 - Dday #3. Still lying and sneaking around. Plan B implemented
WH wants nothing to do with me
Divorced as of 12/09 after 36 years
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Just heard it on the news. They argued over his affair, he stabbed her and tried to cover it up by setting fire and killing the children. How tragic. Did he really think that would allow him to be with his "soulmate?"
BS - me 56
XWH - 57
12/25/06 - Dday - WH promised NC. Plan A in effect. Thought we were in recovery.
6-3-07 - Dday#2 Found out NC never took place and A never ended. Found MB NC promised again, but WH would not write NC letter.
9/07 - Dday #3. Still lying and sneaking around. Plan B implemented
WH wants nothing to do with me
Divorced as of 12/09 after 36 years
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Wow. And I wonder what his "soulmate" thinks of her sweetie now? I wonder how her family feels, if they know. Geesh.
Why do the innocents have to pay such a high price for his adultery?
Just sickening.
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I'll bet he feels "justified" too.
How very, very sad.
Husband was unfaithful to me before and after our marriage, at least 7 times. I found out 13 yrs into the marriage. Trickle truth for an entire year. Several different d-days, so it was more like a d-year. Difficult recovery.
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She probably feels somewhat like Amber Fry did. Maybe she can write a book too. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/rolleyes.gif" alt="" />
BS - me 56
XWH - 57
12/25/06 - Dday - WH promised NC. Plan A in effect. Thought we were in recovery.
6-3-07 - Dday#2 Found out NC never took place and A never ended. Found MB NC promised again, but WH would not write NC letter.
9/07 - Dday #3. Still lying and sneaking around. Plan B implemented
WH wants nothing to do with me
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Just had a news update. They were struggling financially and she was working as a waitress. She found a $2000 charge on their cc for a jewelry store and went ballistic. Every BS on this board certainly knows how she felt. He then tells her that he's leaving for the AP. His story is that she came at him with a frying pan and butcher knife. Says he set fire to the house but didn't mean to kill the children. THe fire got too hot and he couldn't get them out. The worst part is that defense is claiming that he didn't have a lawyer present blah, blah, blah. That they arrested him without looking at anyone else, blah, blah, blah.
Another affair tragedy.....
BS - me 56
XWH - 57
12/25/06 - Dday - WH promised NC. Plan A in effect. Thought we were in recovery.
6-3-07 - Dday#2 Found out NC never took place and A never ended. Found MB NC promised again, but WH would not write NC letter.
9/07 - Dday #3. Still lying and sneaking around. Plan B implemented
WH wants nothing to do with me
Divorced as of 12/09 after 36 years
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So sad.
Although the affair destroyed my dreams, and ruined me financially, at least my ex didn't kill me and our kids. Something to be thankful for I guess.
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