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I have been married to my wife for 24 years.I love her with all my heart.this past year she had an affair with my bother-in-law.she told me we have been trying to work things out but I feel she is not trying hard enough to help me believe in her.I don't want to divorce her but she says she wants out.It all boils back to her breast cancer she feels ugly because her breast are all scared up and I was afraid to play with them because I didn't want to hurt her she went through four painful surgery's and I was afraid that something would happen to her.I would do anything for this woman and now I think I have pushed her away by smothering her.I can't believe she wants to give up 24 years.She says she loves me and always will but she is not in love with me.I tried to take my life the day after Christmas.but that was really stupid.But I love her so much and I just wanted the pain to go away.I don't know what to do I pray for her everyday.that she will wake up and fix her insecurities and selfishness and decide to fix our marriage But I don't know if is to late for that.she says she wants to be on her own so she do what ever she wants and don't have to answer to anybody.she also developed HSV2 virus.Some one please help us please GOD HELP US
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Welcome to marriagebuilders. Glad you have found us. I suggest you post on General Questions II since that forum deals with infidelity and there is much more traffic there.
You need to expose the affair to your family and her family. That often slows them down. Is your brother-in-law married too?
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Yes to my sister and my wife and sister were best friends.I don't want to lose my wife and how do I post this on the other thread
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Just copy it and post on General Questions II.
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