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BW-32
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M-10years
2 boys-2 yo and 8mo
Dday 12/31/07
NC-3/28/08 after many broken attempts
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You've known this man for ten years. I say go with your instincts. Continue to snoop just to make sure that he hasn't taken things underground. Don't feel guilty for snooping, he hasn't had time to earn your trust back.
Widowed 11/10/12 after 35 years of marriage
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“In a sense now, I am homeless. For the home, the place of refuge, solitude, love-where my husband lived-no longer exists.” Joyce Carolyn Oates, A Widow's Story
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You will know if he is still cheating if you start using MB principles and he is in agreement about taking the steps . .but nothing much actually happens.
His mouth is moving but no sounds are coming out.
As PM says, snoop madly. I use a key logger every day.
3 adult children
Divorced - he was a serial adulterer
Now remarried, thank you MB
(formerly lied_to_again)
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Hey Tex,
Don't worry you are not the only one on this boat?? I feel like I am being played as well, but what can you do??? Keep your chin up and come here when you need to vent/gripe/complain/yell
Not2fun
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A large number of affairs end very quickly on D-day. Let's hope that this is true in your case. But I wouldn't worry about it because the truth will come out quickly.
Continue in Plan A.
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