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I just left a message on OW H voice mail for him to call me back. What do I say when he calls me back? I am freaking out. I am starting to regret leaving the message!
me:33
H: 44
Married 5 years-together for 8
2nd M for both.
S14 & S12 from my 1st marriage
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Tell him the truth. If the roles were reversed you would want that also. Be calm and give him all of the information you have. It is the right thing to do.
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I just left a message on OW H voice mail for him to call me back. What do I say when he calls me back? I am freaking out. I am starting to regret leaving the message! [color:"red"] My heart breaks for both of us. Our spouses are romantically involved with each other. My fondest desire is to stop this adulterous relationship so both marriages can heal and survive. I thought you should know. I am so sorry. Do you have questions for me? Here is how you can get in touch with me if you need to. [/color]
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I have been through this and have rethought what I should say and do many times. Please read my post on infidelity. Think out what you are going to say and do very carefully, avoid making any rash decisions.
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