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Wondering if there are some good ideas for things to do for WW to work on her needs for affection. W is in an A with OM and is not at home. She is convinced we are through and doesn't even want to entertain the notion of working on our marriage....just be with OM. No secrets, she admits to it all....just claims that's who she wants to be with.
I'm doing plan A to the best of my ability but it's hard with her away from home and not wanting to spend any time together.
Thoughts on what I can do without giving in and/or creating LB's or pushing her away more?
Thanks
ILA
Male 34 (1st Marriage)
WW 32 (2nd Marriage)
Met 7/02
Moved In 10/02
Married 6/07
EA D-Day 1/5/08
PA D-Day 1/8/08
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These may be symptoms of the problem instead of looking at the problem. Isn't plan A to try and get her to stop the affair? If she won't, which is the same situation I'm in, there is not much anyone can do besides either wait it out and let it end on its own (which it sounds like they all do) or move on. I wouldn't think romantic ideas would be worth worrying about at this point.
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