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My husband cheated on my for three months. With lots of denial and lieing. It has been 2.5 months since he stopped cheating and he has been wonderful. He has done most everything right to help me heal. But I am still hurting so much. I still have distubing flashes of him having sex with the OW and it infurates me. I then become withdrawn and cold to my now loving husband. I have read many books and they talk about how he will heal and step to take to help me heal...but I just don't know how long it will take or how long I can expect my husband to hang in with my wishy washy behavior. Is there anyone out there that can provide me tips on recovering?
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Joined: Nov 2006
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Sounds like you could use some good counseling. Good luck.
It is rare for a truly happy woman to try and take a child away from it's father.
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Joined: Sep 2003
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Welcome Crystle-
Glad you have found us. It will take about 2 years before you feel like you are back to normal - and that is if your husband continues working on the marriage and helping you heal.
Has no contact been established with the other woman?
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crystle...
what were his "reasons' for the affair...
what did he say lead to it
to was "missing'
what do you think was missing..
is he in complete no contact
has there been std testing
ark
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The Four Rules Following these FOUR RULES has been the KEY to our MARITAL RECOVERY.
I made it happen..a joyful life..filled with peace, contentment, happiness and fabulocity.
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