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So hurtful
#2012464 01/19/08 11:03 PM
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My husband said to me today that he doesnt know if he wants to be with me or OW because we both have great potential whatever gezz he has only know her for 3 months dam it and we have been together 5 years and he said she has power over him arg.. these stupied WS comments are driving me crazy...sorry had to vent to someone before he got here.:)
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alaskastorm #2012465 01/19/08 11:19 PM
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WAYWARD CRAP and GARBAGE.

Find a bag to throw it in.

I don't know your sitch, are you in Plan A?

BS 52, FWH 53, Married 1-1-84
D-day 5-14-07, WH moved in with OW
Plan A 9 months, DARK Plan B 3-17-08 until 3-2-09
WH and OW broke up 1-09
Started over 7-09
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Boy oh boy, you should have heard some of the things my FWH said to me.

Try to pretend he is one of the adults on Charlie Brown. He opens his mouth, and all that comes out is Waahhh wahhhh wahhhh........

Nothing he says right now will make sense. In fact, you should be lots more worried if it DOES make sense to you. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/wink.gif" alt="" /> Chin up, he is acting very normal for a WS.

A smooth sea never made a skilled mariner.
~ English proverb


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Try to detach from it. If your WH is anything the majority of wayward spouses, the day will come when he winces at the memory of the utter horse he spouted while he was addicted to his affair.

Theres a bit on managing fog babble ( some is funny) ! and a guide to loving detachment in the thread pointed to by my signature, in case it helps you.

Hang tough. This too shall pass.

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