Please help me, I broke up with my partner recently because he says that he dosen't trust me, everything started because I saw some text messages from this other girl and I asked him and he told me that between them there was nothing going on, then he checked my old cel. and found a very old picture text message that I had sent to a person that I had met but it was only a friend and that was before meeting my partner, this person he even called me and I had told him to leave me along because I was very happy with my husband, but when he asked me I didn't want to tell him and made up stories, like that I didn't know him and things like that but then he said so lets call the person that's when I got nerves and told him who he was, but I did it because our relationship was so beautiful that I didn't want to mess it up and make him upset. He get mad very easy, he just got back from Iraq and had alot of problems in his past relationships, but that doesn't mean that everyone that comes near him wants to do something to him.
I love him and ask him to give me a second chance because I think we both did it wrong, if I wouldn't see the messages he wouldn't tell me and if he wouldn' have seen my's nether, but he says that he doesn't trust me, I moved from the house to an apartment, he says that he knows that I have not been unfaithful and have not slept with anyone but he can not be with me becuse of the trust, his sister gets along with me very well and told him he was going to loose a good girl and that she knew that I really loved him, before leaving the house I cleaned everything, washed all his clothing and even bought him some grocery and made him food, he tells everyone that I am a good women and that he loves me. But he says that he does not have a heart nor a soul, I say that he doen't love him self and he can not love no one till he loves the person that he is.
In his past relationships they cheated on him, robbed him and even tried to kill him, he recently came from Iraq and is seeing a Military Sicologist for this, and he says he dosen't trust anyone.
I really love him and don't know what to do, I don't drink, I don't like to hang out, I just loved to be with my son and him at the house and have everything in order, I feel good because until the last minute I was a good wife.
I am giving some space to see what happens, and told him that even that our relationship ended I want to be a good friend to talk or to cry with.
