Welcome to the
Marriage Builders® Discussion Forum
This is a community where people come in search of marriage related support, answers, or encouragement. Also, information about the Marriage Builders principles can be found in the books available for sale in the Marriage Builders® Bookstore.
If you would like to join our guidance forum, please read the Announcement Forum for instructions, rules, & guidelines.
The members of this community are peers and not professionals. Professional coaching is available by clicking on the link titled Coaching Center at the top of this page.
We trust that you will find the Marriage Builders® Discussion Forum to be a helpful resource for you. We look forward to your participation.
Once you have reviewed all the FAQ, tech support and announcement information, if you still have problems that are not addressed, please e-mail the administrators at
mbrestored@gmail.com
|
|
|
|
Joined: Jan 2008
Posts: 1
Junior Member
|
|
Junior Member
Joined: Jan 2008
Posts: 1 |
My husband and I have been married for 9 years, thorugh half of that time the marriage wonderful, in the past 4 years os so things have fallen apart, I moved back to my home state of Montana to help with my parents health issues and to be back with my children and grandchildren, When the discussion came up of me moving back her to take of these things it ws with the understanding that my husband was too follow me in a few months once things back in Texas were taken care of, we that has since changed he has decide he doesn't want to move to Monana now and here I am, he tells me that he is not sure anymore if he wants this marriage, he has also said I don't have a need to be with you right now maybe in a few months but not now! I am confussed at this and am not sure what it all means any advice on how to hadle this? [color:"pink"] [/color] <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/confused.gif" alt="" />
|
|
|
|
|
Joined: Apr 2001
Posts: 92,985 Likes: 1
Member
|
|
Member
Joined: Apr 2001
Posts: 92,985 Likes: 1 |
mg, it sounds like he has fallen out of love, which is often the case when couples live apart. Perhaps he has fallen in love with someone else. The solution is to move back together.
"It is not the critic who counts; not the man who points out how the strong man stumbles, or where the doer of deeds could have done them better. The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena.." Theodore Roosevelt Exposure 101
|
|
|
|
|
Joined: Jun 2007
Posts: 6,643
Member
|
|
Member
Joined: Jun 2007
Posts: 6,643 |
Hi Montana,
You are in the right place. I am really not an expert in getting you started, but I can tell you that there will be lots of people who will come ask questions to help focus you and gathering up information.
This is a wonderful place where you won't feel alone and think you are crazy.
Weekends can be kinda slow, so please don't think you are being ignored....
BS 52, FWH 53, Married 1-1-84
D-day 5-14-07, WH moved in with OW
Plan A 9 months, DARK Plan B 3-17-08 until 3-2-09
WH and OW broke up 1-09
Started over 7-09
|
|
|
|
|
Joined: Dec 2007
Posts: 61
Member
|
|
Member
Joined: Dec 2007
Posts: 61 |
Hello and welcome! You are in the right place.
The weekends are slow here so be patient. Your story is a little vague, but yes there are things to be concerend about regarding your marriage. If I had the choice I would rather be in MT than TX any day of the week. Lol. However, there are some communication issues/ reasons why you may get a reply like this from someone. Why are the kids and grandkids in MT, you in MT, and him in TX?
|
|
|
|
|
Joined: Dec 2007
Posts: 61
Member
|
|
Member
Joined: Dec 2007
Posts: 61 |
Lol. Skinsgal, melodylane, and I replied at the same time.
Last edited by ineedfoglights; 01/26/08 11:03 PM.
|
|
|
|
|
Joined: Jun 2007
Posts: 6,643
Member
|
|
Member
Joined: Jun 2007
Posts: 6,643 |
We are good... aren't we?
BS 52, FWH 53, Married 1-1-84
D-day 5-14-07, WH moved in with OW
Plan A 9 months, DARK Plan B 3-17-08 until 3-2-09
WH and OW broke up 1-09
Started over 7-09
|
|
|
|
|
Joined: Sep 2003
Posts: 27,069
Member
|
|
Member
Joined: Sep 2003
Posts: 27,069 |
Better zip on down to him PRONTO. Smells like another woman.
|
|
|
|
0 members (),
218
guests, and
40
robots. |
|
Key:
Admin,
Global Mod,
Mod
|
|
|
Forums67
Topics133,661
Posts2,323,623
Members72,372
| |
Most Online9,682
May 13th, 2026
|
|
|
|
|
|
