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NC Update. Feeling more Hopeful. Have Faith BS's #2016287 01/28/08 06:39 PM
Joined: Nov 2007 Posts: 537 T TryTooHard Member
TryTooHard Member T Joined: Nov 2007 Posts: 537	Thought I'd Start a new thread for daily updates. NC at 28 days and counting. I'm trying not to get too confident, but Wife seems more normal than she's been in a long time. I'm feeling a little more normal too. I still have moments of grief, but I'm really concentrating on being a good supportive husband and great father. I'm having fewer nightmares and have actually slept through the night a few times over the last week. I'm hoping it continues to improve... <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/pfft.gif" alt="" /> Thanks to all who are helping me through this. Your support and understanding can not be overstated. I'll talk back soon, and would love to hear you as we progress through this. I hope this can give even a little hope to those who are not yet at this point. BH(me): 40ish FWW:(ILMH) 28yo DS 3yo Married 7yrs Together 10 yrs ??? Spring '07 - Adultery Begins 8/25/07 - 1st D-day (week of our anniv.) 8/07 thru 5/08 - About a dozen D-days/Gaslighting/Flaunting/Fake Recoveries She finally quit on... 1/1/08 - First real NC attempt(Maybe?) 3/1/08 - Told me OM is an A**hole.(Hope?) 5/3/08 - D-day (Admitted to PA once) 5/4/08 - Latest D-day(Finally confessed to multiple EA/PA in our home) 5/8/08 - Present Struggling to hold on

Re: NC Update. Feeling more Hopeful. Have Faith BS's TryTooHard #2016288 01/28/08 06:41 PM
Joined: Dec 2007 Posts: 544 1 14th Member
14th Member 1 Joined: Dec 2007 Posts: 544	I hope NC continues for you! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" />

Re: NC Update. Feeling more Hopeful. Have Faith BS's 14th #2016289 01/28/08 07:01 PM
Joined: Nov 2007 Posts: 537 T TryTooHard Member
TryTooHard Member T Joined: Nov 2007 Posts: 537	14, I'm so sorry for WW's relapse. I hope you can find the strength to endure. It seems your WW's A lasted much longer and was deeper than mine, so I would assume it might take longer to really end. Hang in there, man. I know it's hard. Keep the faith. Are you doing ok otherwise? How are the kids dealing? Stay strong ok? BH(me): 40ish FWW:(ILMH) 28yo DS 3yo Married 7yrs Together 10 yrs ??? Spring '07 - Adultery Begins 8/25/07 - 1st D-day (week of our anniv.) 8/07 thru 5/08 - About a dozen D-days/Gaslighting/Flaunting/Fake Recoveries She finally quit on... 1/1/08 - First real NC attempt(Maybe?) 3/1/08 - Told me OM is an A**hole.(Hope?) 5/3/08 - D-day (Admitted to PA once) 5/4/08 - Latest D-day(Finally confessed to multiple EA/PA in our home) 5/8/08 - Present Struggling to hold on

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