I won't touch the Christian thing since my wife and the OM had their affair in the name of god, claiming they would deny god if they did not divorce their spouses and get together.

I find it amusing how critical women can be of men when it comes to sexual ability. We men are often critisized for thinking of "just one thing", and turning women into sex objects. But, it works both ways for many of us of both genders.

As far as sex and dating goes, my biggest surprise was how eager for sex are the women I date. After 4-6 dates, if we don't break up, then the subject of sex comes up. And I usually let the women bring it up initially. I remember a few years ago, dating a women with high school aged kids. We had dated for about 2 months. One Saturday while at her house the child called and asked permission to stay at a friend's for the night. He got it. Her next action was to take me by the hand and head straight for the bedroom.

Even female friends will ask me to come by for dinner and stay for breakfast. They don't want a relationship or to get married. They just want SF with a man they trust.

I just wonder if this guy is quietly thinking to himself that Rose Red needs to do some of those "special exercises" to tighten things up?

Remember, there are two sides to every story. Your "lack of size" could also be his "to stretched out"......

I'm just sayin'.........

Ummmm..........Tired_Dad, when a man is small, you can SEE it. I'm sure Rose knows the difference.

However, having more experience with this subject than I should probably admit to; while size can be nice, I have had incredible lovers who were definitely average to below average in size......and lousy lovers who were well endowed. If he is wonderful in all other ways, I'd just be patiant about that one. After all, in a new relationship sex is very important, while as time goes on it doesn't have to be fireworks every time.

Oh, and Rose, if it makes you feel guilty, then don't do it! You'll never enjoy it that way.

Anna

And no, before anyone asks, I am NOT speaking from experience, just from some cursory Googling on the subject... <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/tongue.gif" alt="" />.

AGG [/quote]


<img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" /> Okay - that made me laugh out loud...thanks AGG!

My 2 cents...if you feel guilty inside and you're not enjoying it...don't do it. I suppose I might consider myself a little lucky if in your situation. Why? Because at least you won't be feeling guilty about wanting to or actually committing the same sin over and over again. Give it some time...He isn't asking you to marry him right now, is he?

By the way - how old is he (if ya don't mind me askin')

<img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" /> Okay - that made me laugh out loud...thanks AGG! [/quote]

Sure thing, we aim to please... er, poor choice of words... <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/blush.gif" alt="" />.

AGG

another AGG-ism <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/pfft.gif" alt="" />

Are you keeping track? <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/pfft.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/tongue.gif" alt="" />

AGG

it gives me great enjoyment <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/pfft.gif" alt="" />

<img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/blush.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/blush.gif" alt="" />

hahahaha not like THAT!!! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/eek.gif" alt="" /> You Cali. men!! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/rolleyes.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" />

Sorry for crashing this thread....AGG made me do it <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/pfft.gif" alt="" />