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#2016464 01/29/08 06:20 AM
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My wife is divorcing me after my several big mistakes.
1. not taking care of her.no time for her. This is very big mistake. M really regret this. i loved her very much. but don't know y i take it for granted after our marriage.
2. Not faithfull about money. actually, m not like that. but i just over spend wat i earned n not talk with her clearly. i assumed she understatnd.
3. Adultery. Actually, m not. she just misunderstood

We know each others n in love for more than 6 years now. v just married(3 months) n now it happened like this. all because of my fault. she left me but i didn't care. 3 months later, i realized my mistakes. i tried to beg for her forgiveness.

i regret it. but she said it's too late.
Now m trying to meet her and talk with her but she rejected n was very angry with me.

Any suggestion would be very appreciated. m now running out of hope. coz she seems to be very angry n determined to divorced. i think What is in her mind now is my mistake. she can't see any of my good point now.

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I feel like you do, and thats why I came to this site today. I acted very selfishly and wish I could change everything. I'm not the person i was acting like when we seperated and divorced. I found out I'm bi-polar and have psychosis. and the doctor had just put me on anti-depressants. I took on a different personality, and didn't know it then but that person wasn't me. I knew I had had changed, but didn't know why. I couldn't even feel emotional pain b/c of all the meds they kept me on. which made it easy to seperate. Then it all spiraled out of control. now I'm doing good, still on some meds because I need them. but i know who I am. Am i'm not the person he divorced me for. I want my life back. and it hurts because I know he's in a serious relationship and will prolly get married soon. I had to rain on his parade and happiness. But should I say something to him about all this? he knows nothing. and for some funny reason I keep running into his mom lately. we were actually nice to each other for the first time in a long time and I cried.

My xhusbands user name was baddawg1976. I found everything he wrote on her from google. He was wrong about so much he posted about me and he doesn't even know it.

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I feel like you do, and thats why I came to this site today. I acted very selfishly and wish I could change everything. I'm not the person i was acting like when we seperated and divorced. I found out I'm bi-polar and have psychosis. and the doctor had just put me on anti-depressants. I took on a different personality, and didn't know it then but that person wasn't me. I knew I had had changed, but didn't know why. I couldn't even feel emotional pain b/c of all the meds they kept me on. which made it easy to seperate. Then it all spiraled out of control. now I'm doing good, still on some meds because I need them. but i know who I am. Am i'm not the person he divorced me for. I want my life back. and it hurts because I know he's in a serious relationship and will prolly get married soon. I had to rain on his parade and happiness. But should I say something to him about all this? he knows nothing. and for some funny reason I keep running into his mom lately. we were actually nice to each other for the first time in a long time and I cried.

My xhusbands user name was baddawg1976. I found everything he wrote on her from google. He was wrong about so much he posted about me and he doesn't even know it.

Fool me once, shame on you.
Fool me twice, shame on me.


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