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Hope someone can direct me...thanks
BS;ME43,WH45
DS19,DS16
DDay:6Dec06
WH left12Dec06
DIV:3Dec08
WH marries OW 21days later!
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Hi Hope,
How are you doing?
BS 52, FWH 53, Married 1-1-84
D-day 5-14-07, WH moved in with OW
Plan A 9 months, DARK Plan B 3-17-08 until 3-2-09
WH and OW broke up 1-09
Started over 7-09
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I'm ok thanks.Went to the Doc to get more antiD's.I haven't seen her since D Day..We had a good chat..
All quiet at home..my lawyer is waiting for the valuations of WH pension fund from his lawyer..she hasn't hit him with my stipulations and wants yet...!!I can get half his pension
I've been reading your thread and I know how you are feeling..the start of plan B is so scary..mentally you feel like you throwing in the towel but your not..I think I was also addicted to WH and plan B broke that for me..
WH phoned the kids just now and I could hear his voice on the phone..normally I'D get anxious and upset,this time NOTHING!
A year ago when I nearly had a breakdown and was seeing a phsychiatrist,everyone said IT DOES GET BETTER I never believed it but its TRUE!!
I think I can deal with ANYTHING life throws at me now!!
BS;ME43,WH45
DS19,DS16
DDay:6Dec06
WH left12Dec06
DIV:3Dec08
WH marries OW 21days later!
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mentally you feel like you throwing in the towel but your not.. exactly I am so proud of you and how you are working through this...
BS 52, FWH 53, Married 1-1-84
D-day 5-14-07, WH moved in with OW
Plan A 9 months, DARK Plan B 3-17-08 until 3-2-09
WH and OW broke up 1-09
Started over 7-09
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I try not to think that WH is estatically happy with OP...
He can't be..he has lost so much..friends,family, money and relationship with DS15..
I think he thinks that once we're divorced everything will be ok cos than he won't be the bad guy in the kids eyes his so wrong!!I know he'll be poorer!!ha,ha
I read somewhere that near the end of an affair they start to hang on desperately to each other in order not to lose the fantasy..
BS;ME43,WH45
DS19,DS16
DDay:6Dec06
WH left12Dec06
DIV:3Dec08
WH marries OW 21days later!
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I try not to think that WH is estatically happy with OP... me too.... It hurts too much. [/quote] I read somewhere that near the end of an affair they start to hang on desperately to each other in order not to lose the fantasy.. [/quote] It's in G-d hands.
BS 52, FWH 53, Married 1-1-84
D-day 5-14-07, WH moved in with OW
Plan A 9 months, DARK Plan B 3-17-08 until 3-2-09
WH and OW broke up 1-09
Started over 7-09
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Hope someone can direct me...thanks Is that what you were seeking?
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