I recently found txt msgs and phone calls on my husbands cell phone coming under a guy's name. I called the number and discovered it was a women. She lives in another state now but use to live here. I have her email, cell number, work number and name. To make a long story short I confronted husband and then I called her to confront her and to verify his story. They say they are just friends, but we all know that is a lie. She said she would not contact him anymore and he said he has cut off communication with her. I dont know if it was a EM or PA but we are trying to move forward and stay together but I have no trust for him now.

His cell phone is a work phone so I do not have access to his bill to see if they still have contact.

Does anyone know how I could access the phone bill online without him or his company knowing? I read the posts about flexispy and mobilespy but I wasnt sure if his work would some how know about that.

Also his laptop is a work laptop which is locked so i cant access it to see where he's been or see emails.

Any help or advice in how to track him would be appreciated. Im hoping that proof that he has actually ended this will help me heal.

Thanks!

Not sure this will work, but you can try to activate the online account for the phone. If you know the carrier, go to their website and click set up account or whatever the link is to do that. Enter his number and choose a password. It will either let you do it or not. If so, then you'll be able to track his calls that way.

Do not try to set up an online account! As a security measure the phone provider will send a text with a temporary password to the cell phone before the account is activated!

Thanks for the tip. I can get his cell at night when he's sleeping and that way i can intercept the text msg. I'm not sure if it will work though since the bill is paid for by the company, it may not allow me to set up an account.

When he comes home sometime (give him some time to get careless), ask him to boot up his work laptop and show you his email.

You should not put up with secrecy from him given his behavior. Any attempt by him to keep secrets at this point should be a huge red flag to you that something is going on.

I tried to set up an online account last night but the system wouldn't let me, because I (he) wasn't the account manager of the phone. I could have got some detail but it asked for a SIM ID# and I needed his PIN # to get it off the cell phone. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/frown.gif" alt="" />