Does anybody know what happened to Lino and his post. His story was so interesting, poor guy; and others like myself were learning so much from all the great advices he was getting here at MB. Did I miss anything?

Did he finally go to plan B? Did his wife finally moved out? Did he delete his post for legal reason or others, renamed it, or just got discouraged and gave up? Poor guy, like the vets say, when you go dark or plan B, that's when the real work begins, "working on yourself", learning genuinely about all your personal short comings, to be a better person for your mate, or a new potential mate, and not go through this painful tragedic experience again.

Lino if you ever get to read this, just know others and I will keep you, your children and your wayward wife in our prayers always. Hang in there, and God bless!

His thread was removed because it needed to be, his confidentility was blown. I am loosely in touch with him. His sit. has not changed much, and what has changed has unfortunately not been for the better in terms of reconciliation. I believe he still has some shred of hope, but he's a realist and is doing what he needs to do.

Maybe he'll find his way back here someday soon, you never know!

Sco...who are you and why do you ask?

I was thinking the EXACT same thing Lala.

Sorry, gotta agree. My troll radar is tingling! No offense intended, but it's just not proper etiquette for someone to register just to ask questions about another members situation. So again... Who are you and what's it matter to you?

My thoughts too... especially when asking about the legal aspect of it.

T/J

Sorry I missed your birthday PrincessMeggy. Hope it was a good one.

Thanks Mopey... it was.

/TJ

Thanks TYK for the info.

For those who ask, I'm one of those who's hurting badly from dealing with a wayward wife who is so tough that I don't know what to do with myself. I'm just too hurt and down at this time to find the courage and strenght needed to post my story and get help from MB.

I didn't register to ask about lino, I register to start a " Vague thread " on venting, like anyone may get it off their chest, whatever they may be feeling at that moment, without to have to do it in someone post, or worst yet to let it off on our WS and lovebust further.

I ask about lino, because I've been following his story and others as well. His story had many parallel to mine like all of us betrayed spouses, and I applied a lot of the great advises given to my own situation.

Sadly, I realize even with the venting thread I started, people are asking about my motive, but I understand. I have no motive other than getting help to ease my pain, to learn about WW spouses, to understand my short comings and be a better man in the future.

I hope this clears things a bit. I think you guys are a great source of strenght and light for the betrayed spouses, keep it up. God bless!

Sco, I posted in the Venting thread.

I would recommend you do start your own thread. With your story.

Besides venting, you might find this type of journaling useful. Not to mention you get a time line of progress, or lack thereof.

-JKT

I hope you'll consider posting your story, Sco. It is very helpful to journal here and get support, advice and encouragement from those who have been there, done that, and have come out on the other side.

SCO,

It's tough because Lino was driven out by someone spying on him.

I miss hearing about his situation as well.

Just keep the faith and post your story and people will help with advice.

I've been in your shoes and understand how you feel.

Thanks to you all guys. I'm trying hard to put myself together, and find the time to start a thread for my story. It's just that I'm struggling between giving up and continuing fighting for the marriage. Honestly it's a rollercoaster of different emotions, and it's killing me...

sco,

I started a thread for you, it is on page 2, give it a whirl!

I'll bump it up

Love in Christ,
Miss M