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HMMMM..... As I think back on it, I know I WANTED to hit him but I didn't. However, he was in bed, determined to go back to sleep and I hit the mattress in front of him. You know...I smacked my hands down as hard as I could on the mattress in front of him. No response from him except to close his eyes and be a real pr****. (If you knew me you would not even believe that I could THINK about using that word.)

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So, ummm, Pep. Are you going to bare your soul too? *smiling*

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Oh also, later that day, I told him that if he ever dared to use his cell phone again that I would run it under the tires of my car and smash it into a zillion pieces.(My DD laughed out loud when I told her that.)

I had violence in my heart that's for SURE!!

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That's FABULOCITY, Mopey! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" />


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ok, I had to vote in both polls to represent BOTH MARRIAGES. In the one that ended in 1999, I beat him up on the side of the road when I caught him with the OW. I tried to beat up the OW, too, but she locked the door and yelled "you b*tch! you b*tch". Funny, I kinda thought the same thing about her since she was having an affair with my H, but that is jes me bein' judgemental! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/wink.gif" alt="" /> H jumped in his truck and ran to the police station for protection, crying for help.

In my current marriage, I wasn't violent or anything. I just told him "we are done, get out." I wasn't going to bother messing up my nails and hair on a bum. [I had paid $30 for my solar nails!]


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I wasn't going to bother messing up my nails and hair on a bum. [I had paid $30 for my solar nails!]


YOU are THE ULTIMATE GODDESS..our GODDESS thread is too low level for you, GF!!..OMG..LOL...

I'm still mad about that new skirt of mine that I slit and the earring I lost!! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/mad.gif" alt="" />


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I wasn't going to bother messing up my nails and hair on a bum. [I had paid $30 for my solar nails!]


YOU are THE ULTIMATE GODDESS..our GODDESS thread is too low level for you, GF!!..OMG..LOL...

thankee, Mimi! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" />

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"It is not the critic who counts; not the man who points out how the strong man stumbles, or where the doer of deeds could have done them better. The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena.." Theodore Roosevelt

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Mel:

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I wasn't going to bother messing up my nails and hair on a bum

And thought you wrote:

"Hair in a BUN"

I KNEW that was wrong....That would look like a Philly cheesesteak up there!

<img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" />

To continue the thread:

FLamingo had the opportunity to B!tch slap the OW the day after Dday. She still regrets NOT doing something evil, but over two years later, it doesn't matter to her anymore....

However....

If OW showed up, no holds barred, and she will travel to TX to get your pistola.....

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That's FABULOCITY, Mopey!


Ooops. My bad. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/tongue.gif" alt="" />


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I wasn't going to bother messing up my nails and hair on a bum. [I had paid $30 for my solar nails!]



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YOU are THE ULTIMATE GODDESS..our GODDESS thread is too low level for you, GF!!..OMG..LOL...

I'm still mad about that new skirt of mine that I slit and the earring I lost!!


ROFLMAO!


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If OW showed up, no holds barred, and she will travel to TX to get your pistola.....

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heck, I might even bring it to her! Speshul delivery! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/laugh.gif" alt="" />


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I think Pep is ~ fabulosity ~ personified!
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I think you should put a poll on here that askes if everyone here want's Pepperband to share with us weather or not she got violent on D-Day... <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/laugh.gif" alt="" />


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I second that Amazin!! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" />


Husband was unfaithful to me before and after our marriage, at least 7 times. I found out 13 yrs into the marriage. Trickle truth for an entire year. Several different d-days, so it was more like a d-year. Difficult recovery.



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I think you should put a poll on here that askes if everyone here want's Pepperband to share with us weather or not she got violent on D-Day... <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/laugh.gif" alt="" />

NOT that day .... we were out of town .... After we got back home, I DID smack him across the face ONCE (about 4 days after D day) when he answered a very personal question in a way that made me want to kill him .... after hitting him , I flew into a rage and took down the Christmas tree - with my feet - I kicked the tree to death, knocking it over and just screaming my lungs out - then I got in the car and left for 3 days - good choice on my part ! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" />

We are 12 years into recovery - now he rocks my world (if ya know what i mean <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/wink.gif" alt="" /> )

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Amazin...I think Pep is deflecting us with her new poll.


Oooops...nevermind, she posted before I did.

Poor christmas tree. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" />

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I got in the car and left for 3 days - good choice on my part

Probably a smart move... I've had to do that a few times... before D-Day <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/laugh.gif" alt="" />


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THIS IS REALLY PEP

She lives somewhere near Hollywood, I think!! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/eek.gif" alt="" />


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I love Kimora!

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I love her, too..there's lots of me in her...or her in me..OH MY..that's where I got the term, watching her show..LOL...


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