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The OW my DH had an affair with is married with two kids. Their marriage has always been rocky. There has already been lots of potential affairs from both sides of their marriage. Do I tell the husband what I now know?
BW 37 (Me). F?WH 35. 06/97 Married. Three sons...4, 5, and 7. 06/04 EA begins (Unknown to me). 02/10/05 D-Day EA (Unknown PA). 02/24/08 D-Day LTA 3+ YEARS! (same OW).
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I did... he probably wont believe... for me it was a step towards complete separation, so I had something to gain.
BS(me) 47
WH 45
Married 19+ years
A - Over 4 Years ended about 6 months ago
1st DDay 5/30/2004 anon phone call
2nd DDay 11/30/07 1st admission of guilt
3rd DDay 02/10/08 Full disclosure
In Recovery and going well
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