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Hi all, I lost my internet connection about a month or so ago. I'm now here looking for a story I was following with much interest, but I can't remember the poster's name and I can't seem to find it.
The last thing I remember happening in the story was that this BH's WW/FWW went on a trip with a group she was a part of to (I think) Houston to run a race for charity. Her BH surprised her and showed up in Houston to cheer her on. He had suspected that the OM would be there, but OM didn't show up ... he suspects probably because he found out that he might show up.
Any help finding this thread or username would be greatly appreciated.
Thanks in advance.
~Mark
Me: BH, 43
Her: FWW, 38
Married: Feb 29, 1996
Children: 2 Boys-11 & 14
EA started: sometime in 2006?
PA started: 08/21/07
D-Day: 10/24/07
No Contact initiated: 10/24/07
OM: My "ex-best friend" of over 20 years.
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Guess not?
I've answered in his thread before, and I've searched my own posts, still not there. Maybe everything by that user has been deleted for some reason? Does anyone know?
Me: BH, 43
Her: FWW, 38
Married: Feb 29, 1996
Children: 2 Boys-11 & 14
EA started: sometime in 2006?
PA started: 08/21/07
D-Day: 10/24/07
No Contact initiated: 10/24/07
OM: My "ex-best friend" of over 20 years.
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I don't usually have time to read much these days, and I don't think I ever saw the thread you're talking about. The mods can move, edit, and delete posts, though. Maybe they did something to it.
I saw your sig line, how are you and your wife doing?
A smooth sea never made a skilled mariner.
~ English proverb Neak's Story
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Hi Neak,
Thank you for your reply. My wife and I seem to be doing well. No contact has been maintained since D-Day as far as I can tell, and I do still keep an eye out on these things. My wife has been over withdrawal for quite some time now. And more so lately than before, she has been very thoughtful and seems to be emotionally back into our marriage. By her actions, I really sense that she has true remorse for her A. Thank you for asking. I hope whatever situation you are in, that things will only get better for you.
All my best,
~Mark
Me: BH, 43
Her: FWW, 38
Married: Feb 29, 1996
Children: 2 Boys-11 & 14
EA started: sometime in 2006?
PA started: 08/21/07
D-Day: 10/24/07
No Contact initiated: 10/24/07
OM: My "ex-best friend" of over 20 years.
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