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I'm busy..but OMG.. Mel, I'm wondering what you think.. Not2's WH wants her to go on a business trip to with him to Florida to meet his potential business associate and her husband. Not2 suspects that the business associate is the OW. She doesn't know who the OP is...What should she do or say..she has an appt. with Jennifer on next Wednesday... <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/confused.gif" alt="" />
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I have .02 in spare change lying around - if it were me, and I felt strong enough to be very very sure I could control my every word and action, and with the goal of getting a first-hand look at the situation, I would do it. And love all over my husband right in front of the associate.
Further, I would do everything in my power to snoop and find proof ahead of time, so that when I spoke privately to OWH, I would have something to show him.
But if I were even the slightest bit unsure of whether I could control myself, I would not go.
A smooth sea never made a skilled mariner.
~ English proverb Neak's Story
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Goody, so I am channeling my inner Melody then! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" />
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Well, our birthdays are the SAME DAY after all! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" />
"It is not the critic who counts; not the man who points out how the strong man stumbles, or where the doer of deeds could have done them better. The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena.." Theodore Roosevelt Exposure 101
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That's gotta be it! I agree with you, you agree with me, and we are both just soooooo agreeable. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" /> July 1 rules! (Even if you took it first.)
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Ok ladies... your fun meters are pegged way too high... LOL <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/laugh.gif" alt="" />
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D-Day #1 5-26-2006 (Our Wedding Aniversary)
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I have .02 in spare change lying around - if it were me, and I felt strong enough to be very very sure I could control my every word and action, and with the goal of getting a first-hand look at the situation, I would do it. And love all over my husband right in front of the associate.
Further, I would do everything in my power to snoop and find proof ahead of time, so that when I spoke privately to OWH, I would have something to show him.
But if I were even the slightest bit unsure of whether I could control myself, I would not go. Great advice! No way I would pass up an opportunity like that! I think intuition would tell ya a whole lot in a situation such as this.
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That's gotta be it! I agree with you, you agree with me, and we are both just soooooo agreeable. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" /> July 1 rules! (Even if you took it first.) Mebbe some day you can be as sweet as me, if you try real hard! **snort** <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" />
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Ah'll keep tryin' real hard to be sweet, y'all. (How's Ah doin'?)
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You may be as sweet as Mel but you hair won't ever be as big - or as stiff.
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Ah'm agonna keep tryin' anywhichways. Don' crush a gal's dreams, arright? Ah just needs summore of that there Aquanet spray stuff.
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