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Re: BS's does this board make you dwell on the A and/or OP more?
MelodyLane #2030503 03/07/08 05:40 PM
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Just curious who's stories you found to be the most help to you Melody?
Re: BS's does this board make you dwell on the A and/or OP more?
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Just curious who's stories you found to be the most help to you Melody?

A lady named Zorweb is one that comes to mind. Her situation was very similar to mine and she helped me see what a successful recovery looked like. Her H also posted here back then, but I can't remember his name.

"It is not the critic who counts; not the man who points out how the strong man stumbles, or where the doer of deeds could have done them better. The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena.." Theodore Roosevelt

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Re: BS's does this board make you dwell on the A and/or OP more?
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Thank-you all for sharing with me your views. I found that today when I was away from my computer I was actually much more productive. I think I need to try to limit my time here to say maybe 15 minutes a day. Just to read new posts and see if any hit home for me. I do think it helps me to read about others who are experiencing the same feeelings. It helps me feel normal.

BW 38 (me)
FWH 42
Married 7 years
DD 6
SD 15
11-2006 H said he wanted a divorce and walked out
3-2007 I told H I wanted him back
3-2007 to 4-2007 D-day's
4-2007 H moved back in for good
Today-In recovery, but a long way to recovered
Re: BS's does this board make you dwell on the A and/or OP more?
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Whatever works best for you, is what you should do.

There will be times when less is better, but if you reach a point where you need more reading, more encouragement, or more support, give yourself permission to be on here more during that time.

I think you will very quickly get a sense for how much time is beneficial, and not exceed that.

A smooth sea never made a skilled mariner.
~ English proverb


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