Welcome to MB. I am so sorry for the circumstances that bring you here. Read the welcome post at the top of this forum by sunnydale. Familiarize yourself with Dr. Harley's concepts, not just the message board. I would recommend getting and read "Surviving An Affair" by Willard Harley.

Tell us more about you. How long have you been married? How long did the A last? Has the OW done court ordered DNA and not just the home test? Is your H pay child support? Has he been visiting the child? How old are your COM? Are they aware of the OC and the A?


Faith

me: FWW/BS 52 H: FWH/BS 49
DS 30
DD 21
DS 15
OCDS 8