I feel deep in my heart that my H is having, at the very least, an EA with a woman he has know since before we were married. She has been a constant presence in our lives throughout our entire marriage...popping up here and there. I know of at least one time for sure he has contacted her...when I was pregnant with our son...and told her he wanted to see her. I know for sure she has contacted him once...about 3 years ago...and told him she wanted to see him. I have found a Facebook account with his name on it. She is his only friend. He is on her account. He denies he created it.

I have ceased talking about the Facebook account. I am allowing him to believe that I believe this story. In the meantime I have discovered they are linked on a highschool/college reunion site. I have no idea how frequently they talk or if they see each other. He occasionally goes on weekend trips with *friends*, but I'm not so sure I completely believe those either. I'm trying very hard to gather some sort of evidence, but this is taking its toll. I'm not eating and I don't sleep well. I'm trying very hard to hold up a happy facade. I don't want a confrontation to come to early.

If it is not too much trouble, a prayer for the right direction and the right plan would be wonderful. I am so sad and disappointed right now. We have a long and, sometimes, rocky history. I do love him and want to spend the rest of my life with him. But, I don't want to share him with her.

Thanks.