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Just wanted to say thanks to so many of you who supported me in my time of crisis. I've insisted on the truth from my FWW and after getting it, It has now become so very apparent that there is nothing left but a M of settling for the very worst that I could imaginge. I shall discontinue my posts, threads and now back away to where I was as a youth. From simon and garfuncle: "I am a rock, I am an island." I don't even know why I left the rock, but it has turned out to be a major mistake. I have asked the MB Administrators to remove my profile from this forum. I apolgise to all I may have offended, and wish you the very best in your future endevors. My story is done. It's dead and in not too long a time I'm sure I will be too <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/cool.gif" alt="" />. God bless to all of you, and hold your head up high. You are the salt of the earth, All Blessing and farewell, Jerry
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Jerry, please don't leave like that. I am worried about you my friend. If you need to talk, I will be happy to give you my phone number or you can email me at baydog@zoominternet.net
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Jerry,
I don't know your story, but I hear your anger, pain and loss. Please don't shut out the very people who understand the most and are willing to walk through this with you to a life of recovery on your terms.
I hope you stay dude,
Queenie
BS 52, FWH 53, Married 1-1-84
D-day 5-14-07, WH moved in with OW
Plan A 9 months, DARK Plan B 3-17-08 until 3-2-09
WH and OW broke up 1-09
Started over 7-09
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DO NOT let her win. She isn't worth it. None of "them" are.
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Jerry, no matter what...you are a child of God. This is not your short coming..it is hers. Shame on her for whatever she has held from you to make you hurt all over again.
Krazy is right...don't let "them" win. You are valuable here and I hope you come back.
Please be safe brother.
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Why are you letting HER do this to YOU?
Stay HERE, at least, among people, even if only through a computer screen, CARE about YOU.
What's the point of removing your screen name and information?
((((JERRY))))
I made it happen..a joyful life..filled with peace, contentment, happiness and fabulocity.
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Jerry,
I don't know what she did to you!!! But I hope you return.
If not you will be missed.
God hold you in His love,
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email me jerry . we can exchange numbers and pray on the phone.
purebob at btconnect dot com
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Ancient of days we bring before you our friend and brother Jerry.
Lord he has endured trials and now clearly wishes then to end.
Father God I pray that you lift Jerry up and minister to him; Lord that you would take away his pain and allow him to make godly judgments in the mess of his life.
and Lord, of any of we feeble mortal men can be used as vessels of your mercy in his case then USE US Lord God I pray.
I thank you Lord for Jerry's kind, repentant heart and I ask you Father to uphold his soul at his time of crisis.
In Jesus Christ's holy name
Amen.
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Jerry I've run up a prayer chain for thirty around the world praying for you.
Be lifted up brother. You are greater than your circumstances, sir.
Still praying, friend
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Bob...
that was really sweet of you....I am humbled by your care...
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Jerry,
I haven't posted to you before, but Bob_Pure let me know of your present difficulties. Believe me, buddy, I know pain of the heart. You CAN and you WIll get better! Find a friend and do something you enjoy. Keep posting here. You are NOT alone.
All Blessings-
BS (me) 40
WW 38
DD 10
DS 7
Got "I don't love you" letter 8/05.
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Jerry, please stay with us. You can rise above this and truly shinethrough! I am praying for you...may your heart and soul be blessed with the Holy Spirit.
(((((((((((Jerry)))))))))))))))
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Sorry to hear this Jerry.
Rise up mate. You are better than this.
Me: 56 (FBS) Wife: 55 (FWW)
D-Day August 2005
Married 11/1982 3 Sons 27,25,23
Empty Nesters.
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Add me to yout prayer chain, Jerry.
Everyday.
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Jerry, my prayers are also going up for you. Please don't leave this place where you are supported by people who care about you. You are very much needed here.
"Your actions are so loud that I can't hear a word you're saying!"
BW M 44 yrs to still-foggy but now-faithful WH. What/how I post=my biz. Report any perceived violations to the Mods.
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Jerry, you have been here to help others....let us take care of you now.
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shinethrough,,
PLEASE!!
Please know that your pain is taken seriously. Contact a suicide crisis center in your area, call 1-800-SUICIDE or call your family physician.
PLEASE!!!
We care!!!
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Sorry you are feeling down, Jerry. It is a shame when a good man gets treated so poorly. God only knows how much we need good men. Prayers going up from California.
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((((Jerry))))...You are a valuable member of this community...Your presence here is a blessing...Come back and talk to us...we care...let us comfort you with the same comfort that we have received, just as God intended it to be...Prayers for you dear friend...
Mrs. W
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