I know it isn't very popular to start ANOTHER thread, but I can't figure out how to change my title again... and I really want to know

HAS PLAN B WORKED TO BRING BACK A WS??? (he's moved out, living with her for 2 1/2 months, and loves her, not me)

I'm having a HUGE hang up believing it would be better than what I'm doing now... You can answer here, or if you want to read/re-read why I'm having so much trouble with Plan B go to page 47 on my original thread.

Thank you so much, even if you don't have patience for me.

Hi, SS,

If you want you can email a mod (below) and ask them to change the title for you. Or it might be good to start a new thread.

Hang in there.

Ace

Have you thought of this...

Maybe the reason his dad is still with the OW is because his wife didn't do a Plan A then a PLAN B....

She probably didn't have the awsome resourse that you have right here at your finger tips...


Just something to think about...

For a completely separate question like this, a new thread might be best, since it's not actually a part of your story. You can always put a link into your thread, so they kind of stay together.

As to your question - yes yes yes, Plan B is what did the trick. It took one false recovery, and he has never looked back since.

For a WS who is more detached than mine was it may take longer to work, but has very good odds.

Harleys average about an 85% success rate, which can jump as high as 95% with 3+ children. It may take a while for your WH to realize this, but it just is not easy to walk away.

Thanks, I did email JustUss and request a thread title change, oh well, if I have two threads going I'll get twice the help? ;-) I don't mean to monopolize the board, unfortunately/sadly there are many people on here who need just as much if not more help than I do.

I wouldn't say my WH is detached, we continue to treat each other nicely, he doesn't come around much but when he does, we are friendly to one another, if I want a hug he gives it to me. yesterday he initiated the hug, actually a bear hug, lifted me off the ground and said "yep I can tell you aren't eatin" To which I argued as usual, yes I am! ;-) If I wanted SF from him I could get it in a heart beat, for some reason he has no problem "cheating" on her. (I sound conceited and judgemental this evening and for that I appologize, really I am much more decent than what I've been saying).

So who really feels Plan B brought their WS home?

Like Mywifeilove said to a good friend of mine "Plan B will either work, or it will work".

Believe this. I know its hard I'm in the same boat.

You need to understand HOW it works, though. Do you?

Care to share? I'm listening. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" />