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#2032709 03/24/08 04:34 PM
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I didn't seen any warnings at all. It came on a weekend I really could have used some venting space and advice.

Anyone else left wringing their hands and gnashing their teeth? frown

I'm just glad it's back smile

Hope everyone made it through the extended down time OK.


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I was right there with ya. I've been wondering how everyone's doing.


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Wow, have I missed you all so much. It's amazing how much a part of our lives this has become.

Thank you to MB and all the people who worked so tirelessy to bring this back to us. I guess it goes to show how important this place is to us all.

Queenie



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D-day 5-14-07, WH moved in with OW
Plan A 9 months, DARK Plan B 3-17-08 until 3-2-09
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Well Howdy, everybody!

I was surprised by the down time. I did find it good for me to disconnect for a bit, even though I'm getting geared up for separation (PWC STILL has not left). I really just missed gabbing with my friends and helping where I could.

This new board is gonna take some gettin' used to. Hope everyone is doing well.



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I have been checking everyday to see if it's up... I didn't realize just how much this board means to me and how therapeutic this board is.


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try coming to the climax of your sitch and having the boards down,,,,it's been awful....

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I was more concerned for others than myself, because, unfortunately, I've been thru this separation thing over and over again. Emotionally, I'm very sound right now. It seemed that we had an influx on new people too, right before the outtage.


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and I HATE HATE HATE the new look.....ughhhh...

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It looks like they have a few bugs to work out... Center alignment.... (yuck) and the fact that I can't edit any of My post entries that I made before the change.... Like the title of my thread...


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Its going to take some time getting used to this.

But I got sooo much work done while the site was down! cool

Plus my cool SoCal icon is not the same!!!!!!! OH NOW THAT REALLY CHAPS MY CHEEKS!!


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Morning everybody! Good to have you all back...good to be back...the sabbatical was tough but another learning experience & a chance to see who's really looking out for me.


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Hi Everyone. It's good to see that most of us are still around. I could have used the down time to actually do some work, but .... I didn't.


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Originally Posted by not2fun
and I HATE HATE HATE the new look.....ughhhh...

I agree. I sometimes post somewhere else but had not gone there for a while. I visited it just this past week and they changed the boards also. IMO it's too light. White background, light blue text. It makes it hard to read, but then again maybe I am getting too old and I'm loosing my vision.


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