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I know that MB says to expose the A, but is there a time when it isn't necessary to expose the A to the OWH?
Apparently, their marriage has never been great and he may have had his own A. They have two kids. My trouble is that after the NC letter about a month ago, we haven't heard from her at all and I don't want to stir it up. I also worry that if I tell OWH 1) he won't believe me 2) he may leave her, giving her all the more reason to mess with us.
We sent the NC letter to their home address with my H name as the return (and OWH knows about the first two years of the A) so there is actually a possibility that he already knows.
How important is it to expose it to him? Or can I just be done with them altogether and give no more energy to OW at all?
Advice?
BW 37 (Me).
F?WH 35.
06/97 Married.
Three sons...4, 5, and 7.
06/04 EA begins (Unknown to me).
02/10/05 D-Day EA (Unknown PA).
02/24/08 D-Day LTA 3+ YEARS! (same OW).
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HTM,
Most folks here will tell you that he has a right to know. I tend to agree with that.
Who
I am the BW,
He is the FWH
D-Day: 12/02/03
Recovered
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