If you establish no contact, there is no possibility for sweet talk because there is no communication. You can do it!

I want you to know that I'm taking such interest in your posts because I can sense that you really want your family back and are just confused as to how to do it. There are a lot of great people on here that can help you and hopefully by keeping your thread going they will see it and give you some great guidance.

I can sense in your words that you are a good person and you have the strength to do what you know is right. Don't let your guilt control or define you, we all make mistakes, but it is what you do to repair your life once you realize your mistakes that what will define you.

Get the help of a good pro-marriage counselor (I find Christian counselors to be very pro-marriage) and get your life back on track. You can do it!

Look just be honest with the guy that you can't do this anymore. Simple and to the point.

Sorry but woman you need to be more direct and blunt with men. We are simple and this whole idea of we will get "it" if you give us enough hints while trying to spare our feelings is wrong.

The letter a few pages back is so wrong on so many levels. Trying to spar someones feelings while telling them to go away? Come on!

It is better to be hurt with the truth then to be comforted with a lie. That letter did not but try to give comfort.