I am finding it really hard to maintain plan A and stay really strong through all of this and be my own person. It is such a struggle when you have relied on someone for 7 years and then suddenly they are an alien.

I would love to know from the VETS and anyone else on the site how they managed it and what secrets they can impart upon me so I can get through this with my head held high and be able to survive the rollar coaster without falling off.