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What's new pussycat, whoa whoa whoa....?

Still dating your gal? Been over a year, no?

Dish!!



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Awwww, thanks for caring and for asking - and you are very close on the timing, good work!. It's coming up on one year in two weeks... Who woulda thunk it... All is well, she is normal, everything is easy and drama-free... just how I like it. Really, it is such a relief to have things go so smoothly, and to be able to agree on most things as easily as we do - our compatibility seems to be pretty darn good!

And how are things with you, DW?

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Excellent! Effortless and drama-free is most definitely the ticket. So glad to hear it. So you still adapting the 'go w/ the flow' vs. 'spouse hunting'? wink I really feel it takes the pressure off and lets you enjoy the relationship w/o pressure and lets things develop naturally....

As for moi, doing just peachy. BF and I got engaged in Dec and have not set a wedding date. I'm thinking fall or next spring, but I do not want to get stressed or caught up in planning a big affair. Nope. BTDT. Had the big poofy white dress wedding, now we are going for fun and casual!! Beach house. Family. Friends. Food. Cocktails. Yup. That about sums it up grin

We are moving in together in June though. I've rented out my house to dear friends, so we are taking the blended family plunge! Everyone seems okey dokey w/ it, and I'm keeping my daughter in her school, which is all she cares about. I know we'll go thru an adjustment period, as she and I have had our house to ourselves for 5 years, but we are cautiously excited!

Thanks for the update!


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Nope, definitely no spouse hunting this time around (wiftty would be proud). It took us nearly three months from first date to become exclusive, so we both took our time getting "involved". I met some other women after meeting J, but the more women I met, the more I liked J smile.

We seem to really like each other's company, which is a very nice feeling. And yup, without the drama or complications, it just seems that this is how it should be - you know, the old "gut feel" test smile.

Neither of us is talking about the "future", but I feel that it would take some major event for things to not work out - again, a nice change from dating someone and worrying about how to get around some weird trait, some red flag, etc...

And I am very happy for you DW, it's good to hear that things are going so well smile. Keep us posted, and drop a line whenever you want to!

AGG


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Awwww.

Nice updates from the both of ya!

I'm 2.5 years in.
Other than me getting worried every 6 months -- things are fine.
And in fact I'm overdue for one of those temperature check things. So I think I'm over that -- just going with the flow and enjoying it!


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