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Quick but not so easy question
#2039883 04/09/08 06:26 AM
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don't know what happened but I edited my post and then it was just a period.

My wife is moving out, she is looking at a place where the OW is quite often because her best friend lives there. Wife knows of OW and OW knows I told wife. I feel that if my wife moves out to get space and away from me and this situation that I so selfishly caused that it will make it all worse for her because she will just be followed by it all and see OW all the time.

Do I tell my wife that the location she is thinking won't be a good place and about how OW is there often? She shouldn't have to go through more pain than I have already caused.

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any thoughts?

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Hi Just Tim,

I just bumped your original thread with a suggestion that you keep to one thread to make it easier for posters to suggest answers your question.

FWH/BW (me)57+ M:36+ yr.
4 D-Days: Jun-Nov 06 E/PA~OW#2 (OW#1 2000)
Re: Quick but not so easy question
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Originally Posted by JustTim
Do I tell my wife that the location she is thinking won't be a good place and about how OW is there often?

YES, You tell her OW lives in that area. You let her decide after that! DON'T manipulate her!

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She shouldn't have to go through more pain than I have already caused.

Answering all her questions Honestly is what she will need!


BTW, Ace is right - keep to your original thread (JMHO)

Last edited by tst; 04/09/08 09:53 AM. Reason: fix quote



Recovery began 10/07;

Meeting my wife's EN's is my "thank you" that refuses to be silenced.

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