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I will be contacting OWH soon to inform him about his wife’s affair with my husband. I’d like to meet with him in person to give him the info and evidence, but would first need to call and get him to agree to meet me and not say a word to his wife until we have met. He doesn’t know me nor do I know him, and I don’t know if his wife has already told him about the affair (I doubt it, though), so I’m not sure what his reaction will be to an “out of the blue” call from a stranger who wants to tell him about his wife's affair.
How should I handle the call? What should I say and not say to get him to meet me and not disclose anything to his wife in the meantime?
Thanks in advance for your usual wonderful advise.
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I'd simply say, "My name is X and I'm calling you about OMW. I believe she's having an affair with my H."
That should catch his attention and be enough to go from there. Odds are that he's already suspicious and probably has intel to share with you.
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That's exactly what happened with me.
OMW was glad to see me.
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Thank you, guys, for your advise. I'll put it into practice and hopefully everything will go as planned.
Julcai
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