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God's blessings to all of you. I have cried with you and prayed for you and rooted you on since last July but I have never registered until today.
We are now six weeks from the anniversary of DD and in recovery. We still have our ups and downs but the love has been fully restored by God's grace, much hard work on the part of my FWH and in part due to my finding this site.
I am posting today because tryingtocope in the recovery forum has need of a post by Melodylane that I can't find. It is a response by Dr Harley in the November (I think) news letter about a BS having nightmares because her husband would not reveal many details of his A including the name of the OW.
I was that BS.
I don't believe that we could have recovered our marriage if FWH had continued to keep that from me. I don't believe she can either. Can someone please help her?
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Welcome. Why are you nervous? If you've been reading here for that long you are pretty well versed by now. We'll see if we can get Mel to find that post.
Glad things are working out for you.
BW(me)
DDay EA 4/05
DDay PA 6/05
In recovery
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Thanks Michele,
I am an intensely private person and I marvel at the courage of the people who post here. I have lurked and read and learned much. I may even have something to give back but I am not sure yet. Maybe you could post to tryingtocope.
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If you've gone through a DDay and come out the other side, you have plenty to contribute. People always need encouragement.
I'll see if there's something I could help with.
BW(me)
DDay EA 4/05
DDay PA 6/05
In recovery
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Me, BW-57
FWH 54
4 kids and 4 grandbabies between us
In recovery since D-day, May 28,2007
FWH never onboard the MB boat but still clinging to the side.
One day at a time by God's grace.
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