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Yep its me again, this time with a different attiude and very greatful to be a caring husband. I wanted to thank a lot of you who helped me through my rough times and stuck by me and helped me become a better husband and person all around. Yes, I still have a long ways to go but im growing everyday for sure.
Update on my marriage:
We're still working on us, we are a lot more open and have changed a lot of things this time around. I no longer run her over and go do what Zach wants. I can say im enjoying marriage and that experience has taught me so much. Ive came a long ways and I still have a lot of growing to do, but agian thank you guys so much on here. I wanted to get away from here for a while and work on me and be away from the computer.
My old thread: Need Some help Please for ref.
Thanks and Hello!
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Glad to here a happy update. Keep up working on your marriage and don't quit. Remember to meet each other's emotional needs and spend 15 hours a week doing fun things together.
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I don't know your story so I don't have anything to add. All I thought when I read your post and your sig line was "holy crap you two are young!" my sister is 19 and I can't imagine her in a million years being married let alone married and sleeping around with another guy.
wow. You are both SOOO young.
mlhb
God first, family second, and all else will fall into place.
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Hey Zach!!
It's great to see ya'!!
I've been wondering about you guys and how things were going. And BAM!! You show up!
Thanks so much for giving us this update!!
Keep up the good work and take care!!
Charlotte
P.S.) And keep in touch!! Once in a blue moon or so!
Charlotte22
BS-42
WH-Mr. Gray-52
M-15.5y
DS*DIL-26, DGS-1
DS*DIL-22
DD-21
Dday: 6/27/07 (Plan A-sort of)
10/30-BRAVE NEW WORLD! Exposure!
11/1-Filed D
11/21-Temp hearing, Shiny takes all
12/15-Plan B
5/13/08-Spousal support extended, my Shiny
Attorney totally ROCKS!!
7/17-Court again, Shiny rules!
7/22-OWH temp hearing, Shiny kicks butt again!
12/11-Mediation; Gray won't budge, we are now headed for trial
Shiny="A Dynamic Force of Epic Proportions"
Shiny WILL win!! No doubt, Sugah!
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Thank You! Ill check up with you guys. Yeah we're both very young, been together for 5 years or so though. I turn 21 next month. Again that all of yall and this site, its changed me greatly. Imma still read around during work, I tried to post yesterday there but it wouldnt let me  . Anyway off to work, have a great day!
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Glad to here a happy update. Keep up working on your marriage and don't quit. Remember to meet each other's emotional needs and spend 15 hours a week doing fun things together. Yes I am making sure of this, I use to go off and do whatever I wanted, now I spend a ton of time with my wife and having a great time, I love it.
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Hey Zach,
Glad you popped in to say hi!
Hope recovery is going well. Are you still counseling with your Pastor? Did you find a place outside of town to settle into? And hows those dogs?
tst
Recovery began 10/07;
Meeting my wife's EN's is my "thank you" that refuses to be silenced.
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Hey Zach,
Glad you popped in to say hi!
Hope recovery is going well. Are you still counseling with your Pastor? Did you find a place outside of town to settle into? And hows those dogs?
tst Hey tst! How are you and your wife doing!? Hope all is well. Thank you for the wishes and help youve done for me. We found a place somewhat away from where we were, half way in between my work. We're loving it so far, I just got in from the gym. We are still meeting with my pastor and attending church. Her mother keeps the Bulldog cause she loves him to death, we got the teacup yorkie and she about fainted when I gave it to her on Vday. We love it, I find having an animal puts me in a better mood somehow when I get home. Love playing with him and it in a way simulates having responsibility as a child, I know its far off but gives us somewhat a feel.
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