Oh we actually have a daughter. OW has a son. That was a typo. but you are right. No man is any man at all who would do this. He was arrested. I have to go into some kind of a hearing in a little while. I got maybe an hours of sleep and my arm feel like it's broken. What a pig.

real winner there huh?
disgusting.
my ex, after we had split up, kicked in my door, shoved me into a wall, and used every profanity right in front of our kids!

oh, i had him arrested you better believe it.
and i saw what a disgusting pathetic excuse of a man he is.
ow wants him, she can have him! of course, she didn't see it happen so i am sure she doesn't believe it. she actually emailed me and said that i had to get my revenge on my ex by doing this. i was like, "hello, they don't arrest you for doing nothing!" HER parents bailed him out of jail. DISGUSTING.

then he went and lied to every one saying the charges were dropped because he didn't do anything wrong. well, i called the DA because i was livid. she was like "oh no they weren't. he plead guilty to all charges" so, he lied to everyone because he could, how would they know? i emailed him parents and made sure they knew the truth.

unbelievable.
move on girl, you are way above this.

get a good lawyer, get primary custody, keep a diary of everything he does and says, and take his butt to the cleaners.

mlhb

Sad,



Good for you. Right now you are angry so the adrealin is keeping you going. Please take care of yourself and your DD.

Stay strong, you are clearly the only stable parent she has.

Who

I hope you will make sure that your WS is charged with domestic violence and get a no contact order for you and your daughter.

You probably will not get this until after the hearing, but I hope you are protecting yourself.

((((((hugs!!!!)))))

Update us on what happened, we will be here for you.

Love in Christ,
Miss M

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BeReal...do we know you?

just wanted to check in.. I'm slowly feeling a little better. Not limping but still very sore. This is such a nightmare but I am trying to just put one foot in front of the other and not think about further in the future. We did get a no contact order. There's another court thing on Friday..

I'm starting to relax a little. Very strange, and I'm almost afraid to admit it, but I found myself slightly sentimental and missing him today. I'm angry at myself for that. I'm so sad about how all this is turning out. I'm more angry though. Mainly at him. Some at her. I just miss our old life and how happy we used to be. Like I don't recognize the world anymore.

sadgirl, the man you are missing doesn't exit anymore. You miss the man you used to know, the one who loved you and sang to you, who fathered your child and treated you well. You don't miss the man who left you for a girl young enough to be his daughter, who mistreated you emotionally and beat you up.

It's natural to grieve for what's lost, and to feel nostalgic for what used to be, even though you know intellectually that it's gone because he destroyed it. A part of you will always love the love you've lost. Someday you will be able to remember that love and separate it from the pain that came after.

bump

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Edit Reason: BA

Can someone translate this for me? Thank you.

Best Advisor, the troll, posted that post. All posts by them are just being deleted.

Best advisor? Is that the name of a poster?

Best Advisor is the original name for a troll poster who has more than a dozen other screen names (including hijacking the name of a veteran poster) and has been plaguing the forum for several months. He/She/we be/it has never explained what their attraction to infidelity is and offers very poor, frequently anti-marriage building advice. The mods have their already full hands burdened further by this strange stalker.

I have not posted in this thread before but I looked it up and realized that the last post from sadgirl is from April 8 when her WH had beat her up.

Sadgirl, if you are reading this, please post, I am worried about you!