I was thinking right before Memorial Day weekend. Our anniversary is on Memorial Day this year. But I think it depends on how much longer I can stay in plan A.


I think I have everything worked out. My brother is my intermediary. I’ll block her phone calls to the house and my cell phone. She does still have my work number and can call me that way... I guess I’ll just have to hang up on her when she calls. I’ll make sure her email is blocked too... I’m emotionally ready for plan B. I’m ready to give this up to God and let his will be done.


Her and I had an interesting talk about that yesterday... I'll tell ya'll about it on my other thread later...

I don’t have the title yet... I originally told her that I would sign the title over to her. I paid it off on the 1st and my bank is sending the title via FedEx. I’ve been wrestling with whether or not I should re-possess the car. Her dad told me to let the tags expire and don’t re-new them... then he said I should take the car back. I know this will really piss her off... But on the other hand once she has the car and the title ... what’s to say she won’t sell that one and demand that I provide another in a divorce hearing...


That’s what I’m looking forward to in plan B....

Thanks for all your support Lala.

MOST EXCELLENT!! ((((((((Amazin))))))))

You are ready then...but why wait? Drawing it out only prolongs your pain.

But, just in case you were wondering...GO GET THAT CAR WHEN YOU GET THE TITLE!!!! Do it, Amazin! When you do, hand her the PBL! If the court orders you to give it back, so be it- but at that point, you can drop the insurance and sign over the title. Wouldn't it be awful, after all you have been through already, to have that [censored] wreck your car, hurt someone else and YOU be held responsible because YOU are the one on the insurance. Please protect yourself. People are evil, Amazin--don't put it past this POS to do something like that. Obviously, he isn't a person of good character, and unfortunately, neither is your WW right now.

I don't want to see you hurt any more...she has no intention of changing. The only way she will is if you give her a reason to WANT to change. Which really isn't the point, anyways. The POINT is to protect you from her abuse so that you don't completely fall out of love with her. The POINT is to take some time and heal yourself and clear your own fog so that you can think with a clear head...