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Re: No children involved. Should we give WS a ch
e2008 #2050923 05/02/08 10:44 AM
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Hi e2008

I believe that marriages with or without children are equally precious and valuable.

Kids provide perhaps an extra incentive to restore the practical family unit when the going gets tough, but I see no difference in "saveability" or righteousness between marriages with kids and those without.

All blessings

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Re: No children involved. Should we give WS a chance
merlin2 #2050950 05/02/08 11:25 AM
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How are you today. There are some very good people posting good advice to you. What are your thoughts about contacting the OW husband?

Merling
The OW husband discovered the evidence and he contacted me. I am debatting whether to get in touch with the OW husband today and see how they are doing. What are your thoughts on this?
I have a bad morning as I had an argument with my H. He doesn't want me to give me password access to his email and chats. He says he does not want me to get into the pattern of randomly checking on him. I told him he needs to earn my trust back and in no position to debate with me.
Re: No children involved. Should we give WS a chance
e2008 #2052119 05/05/08 09:59 AM
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e2008

I believe it would be a good idea to stay in contact with OW husband. It sounds like your WH may still be seeing the OW. Recovery will not begin until NC is established. A formal NC letter should be sent. There will be a period of withdraw your WH will experience. You should be reading about Plan A.

You WH not wanting you to check on him are huge red flags.
What is your WH telling you he wants? Does he want to continue the marriage?
Merlin2

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