As some of you know my story, I show up about once a year after my initial 2 straight years of he11. My WH had an internet addiction to OW as well as porn (magazines and TV).

Yesterday was our 6 year anniversary. The year 5 - 6 were better than the previous years in that there were no OW to speak of. And the acting out with porn was far, far less - probably twice in the year. I still don't like it and I must admit I resort to love busters when it happens because I am so disappointed. Don't know why I should be, his pattern has been spelled out in front of me for 6 years. It's my boundaries that are the issue.

Anyway, just wanted to check in and say hello. Still so many people suffering. I hope that Recovery comes as quickly as God will allow for each of you.


BS(me) - 40
FWH - 36

6 years of discovery.
Now - one day at a time....