My friends on this board,

My exWW is attempting to collect each and every single post I've made on MB to use against me, cherry pick sentences, and take out of context to attack me in court.

I am proud to be a member of MB. I have gotten tons of support from many of you here and I hope I have helped some of you.

I love coming here and helping others and getting insight to understand this crazy thing we went through called infidelity and what ultimately became divorce.

I have posted here in anger, sadness, happiness, and every emotion in between.

I've posted things I wish I hadn't and later I've regreted not being able to post freely anymore because the ex is reading my posts and cherry picking.

I've posted about waywards in general at times and I'm sure that will be turned against me somehow.

Well, wayward spouses are the most evil and selfish creatures on the planet who spew venom, care only about themselves, and have no morals.

BUT, while we despise waywards, most BSes here love their spouses, who are trapped behind some fog somewhere or are on the "mothership", tyring to escape.

I'm sure that my talks of "motherships" and "aliens scrambling brains" will somehow be used as, "Look, he believes aliens are kidnapping people and scrambling their brains!"

So, uh, I guess I must embrace the fact that I've mosted on here thousands of times in different names, the one I'm most proud of is papaof3, which I'd like to take back but everyone here now knows me as pomdbd3, which stands for papaof3 mustangdriver brokendreams. Those are all my formal names.

So to my ex, I say enjoy. Enjoy spending thousands for your lawyers to compile the written ramblings of a man who has spent two years mending a broken heart and putting his life back together. I hope you derive some sort of satisfaction and joy in attempting to destroy the father of your children in court.

To my MB friends all I have to say is, "I'm here and I'm not going anywhere!"



Have a great weekend everyone.

pom,

I'm glad you're here and staying. You've been a great source of help and inspiration to me. I'm sorry you're suffering for it, because I know that what you've shared here has helped so many others just like me.

I for one am GLAD on you taking a stand for your posts and wish you would come over to mine sometime and help me get some backbone.

I read how you help so many people and I think you willing to stay and not let her chase you off is a gift for us.

Keep the posts coming dude.

I APPLAUD you STANDING TALL in the face of EVIL.

Have FAITH that EVIL will not PROSPER.

I'm sorry 2L2F, I was in a conference with the mothership when you posted and didn't catch it fast enough.

I'm meeting with bigfoot later to discuss primate grooming habits and am going to a conference on how to use 2x4s as anti depressants.

Fascinating stuff.

Oh, and just in case:

The above statement is not intended to be taken literally. They are the derranged ramblings of a clearly unstable mind who flew too many combat missions over Iraq and is now suffering from the after effects of inhaling too much jet fuel and being exposed to all that radar that scrambled his spermies so he can only have girls from now on.

Please ignore the rambler. He shall be sacked soon.

A message for WW ....

Those poor pandas. Trying to reduce my use of verbs to save the pandas.

The mothership dictates I do so.

Pom,

Good for you taking a STAND. Adultery does suck and for your WW to have done what she did while you were serving our country makes me physically ILL! With that being said, you may not know but I'm a webmaster by trade. I have been planning to develop a script that will pull all of a persons posts and put them in a single page for a while now and I think this may be just the right time for me to put that together. Let's see her try and pick a choose things and take them out of context when you have proof to show otherwise. For now, keep up the good fight in the face of evil. I'll be in touch later..........

Want2Stay,
Webmaster

this is an anonymous forum. I do not think there is any way she can PROVE you posted anything. Heck, for that matter, she could have posted the stuff to make you look bad. Absent a court order to seize your computer...which would NEVER be ordered, this is all hearsay.

I saw a bumper sticker the other day that said:

If you don't stand behind our troops, you are welcome to stand in FRONT of them.

I do miss flying.

Not much I could do with my jet other than run you over. Suck you in the engines too. Not a good way to go.

Actually, I don't have a jet anymore either.

Flying was fun. You looked forward to flying.

I can't say I have ever looked forward to sitting in my cubicle here at the 5 sided prison called the Pentagon.

I haven't read any of your previous posts about your WW so I don't know the situation, but I am so sorry for everything you are going through. You WW needs to pull her head out of her [censored] and realize what she affect she is having on your kids. She is undermining you and that will have a lasting effect on them. There is no reason to ever undermine the other parent in front of the children!!

Hey pom,

Ever fly with a guy named Mike from Houma, La

Not sure how big the flying gas station fleet is, but I went to high school with a guy that does that. He'd be 32 or 33 now.

Hey Papaof3,

Thanks for stating so clearly that being emotionally devasatated by the thoughtless actions of a WS can cause a predictable response from the devastatee...

another suggestion for the Plan C thread

L2F

Know what will happen, Pom...especially if she succeeds (because we ALL know how completely screwed up the legal/court system is in this country). Your children will grow up. And they will find out what their mother did. And what an immoral wench she is. And how she kept them from their father who loves them and has always tried to do right by them.

She is betting on the here and now, and not the future...typical of a wayward brain (or lack thereof). But the future is just around the corner. When they are 12-13, THEY will be able to go to court and stand up to their "mother" (quotations, because NO "mother" who actually loves their children more than themselves would even TRY to keep a loving father away from her children--she only cares about them as a weapon against you). And they will grow to hate her and what she has done all on their own, without any help from you.

Journal, Pom. Start a book just for them. Start it with the story of YOU and your life, and all of the good things you have done. Then describe what you came home from the war to find, and what she has done since. But MOSTLY, tell them how you feel about them. How much you love and miss them. How you would have moved Heaven and Earth just to be with them more. Print out some of your best stuff here and show them what kind of heartache you have endured.

The FUTURE, Pom...focus on that...she can be a hateful [censored] right now all she wants, but she can't stop them from growing up--where the truth will be right there staring them in the face. Then she will feel their wrath! Not that she would care, since she really never thinks of (or cares for) anyone but herself, anyways. She has proven that time and time again.

You SHOULD organize a march! We SHOULD start standing up for what is right in this country (and stand against what is wrong)! We have lost our guts, our spirit...sad.

Pom, I just want to add my voice to those in support of you. I am so sorry for what you are going through, and especially that what you may or may not have written on an anonymous moral support group could be used against you in your divorce.


Say hi to Xenu and Tom Cruise for me. Maybe Xenu will let you fly a DC-8:
Intergalactic Xenu Airlines

Xenu is preparing me. He advises I speak to a witch doctor and eat some ants while wearing aluminum cones on my head to help align the star clusters of the universe and get a fovorable ruling.

I'm ordering my ant farm right away!

I'm going to spend my evening eating seaweed and raw fish while humming to help align my aura and hopefully please the mothership.

There will be a companion of the female persuasion joining me in the indulgence of seaweed and raw fish. I hope she can help me channel properly and reach nirvana with Xenu and the mothership.

We shall see.

I *love* seaweed and raw fish!!! So does my whole family.

... and we've visited Roswell....

LOL! That makes me think about "Chubby Rain" from Bowfinger with Steve Martin and Eddie Murphy.

Remember that one? HILARIOUS!!!!!!